I agree with you JB2002. I discovered I had SA 1 year ago and I was determined to fix it. I have definitely improved and my SA is very mild. At first, I wanted to get rid of my SA for selfish and empty reasons like being popular and all that other superficial crap. Now I want to be a good person who helps and loves people. SA holds me back from doing this thus I work hard to get rid of it. When you don't think of everything revolving around yourself and thinking more of the big picture, life gets easier and happier.