[organicwildroot]

It's pretty easy for me to like somebody but it's been awhile since I've had strong feelings for someone. I don't really have strong feelings for this guy as of yet and I certainly don't believe in the whole love at first sight bullcrap. No offense to those who do, though you could relate this to love at first sight because I just about fell out of my shoes when I first saw this guy, I think I'm just highly attracted to him is all. I just met him probably two months ago, he did some work to my car and I recently had to bring it back in after my gas tank collapsed on one side. He is so good looking and I want to believe that he was somewhat attracted to me but I think it was probably all in my head. I don't have much expierence in the dating department so I definitely couldn't work up the courage to ask him if he had a girlfriend. I figured if he was interested then he probably would have just said so but it just kind of bothers me because I don't think I will see him for a long time to come. I know myself pretty well and regardless of how much I think he likes me, I'll never take the initiative to ask. I finally meet a guy that I really like and I totally blew the oppurtunity to blow fish out of the water or however that saying goes, if it even applies to that sentence. I'm not very smart. Anyways, guess I just needed to share how I felt about this dude. I don't have any close friends to talk to about it, mostly work friends but I don't really hang out with them outside of work and they are aware that I like him but they don't really know the whole story. I just told them about this hot guy that works down the road at this place. r

 

[xyzhousexyz]

You are the F-ing cutest. If i may, just go back with a fake problem (with your car) and when he checks it, and sees nothing is wrong with your air conditioner or w.e, just tell him you know nothing is wrong with the car you just wanted to see him again. And if he likes you he will pretty much take it from there.

 

[Jurexic5]

I work at an auto repair shop and sometimes I wonder if there are any ladies that feel this way about me after I work on their cars, ha.

Just go back and say, 'hey I remember you, you fixed my gas tank' then just go from there. Just get your oil changed, but only if the guy is there. Unless you want to get your oil changed that often. Do they even do oil changes?

 

[homer]

Make something up and go back. Repeat until he gets the message.

 

[PickleNose]

If you're the slightest bit attractive, he's probably a typical guy. Meaning that you have enough time to work yourself into his heart while he's still admiring your looks. It doesn't really matter how hot he is. Guys are all the same. We all kind of lose it when we see a pretty girl.

 

[mrfixit]

he did some work to my car and I recently had to bring it back in after my gas tank collapsed on one side

either he sucks as a mechanic, wants to take your money, or he want to see you again.

I finally meet a guy that I really like and I totally blew the oppurtunity to blow fish out of the water...

i don't see how you blew it since you didn't do anything.

it's never to late, if you really like this guy let him know you do. you can do that by being blunt "do you have a girlfriend?" or by being subtle "i think you are cute". if you don't bait and hook, how do you expect to catch fish?

 

[mrfixit]

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[Pelicanbay]

well for 1, maybe he doesnt like the fact you say "dude" lol

just ask if he wants to go out sometime, its really that easy, get the number...wait a day or 2, text or call and there you go, you got a first date...its much easier for a girl to get dates with men then it is with women, unless you pick up on the fact he doesnt like you then most guys will say yes everytime even if they are already dating somebody because to him, 1 more friend isnt going to hurt unless his woman has his neck on a leash