[Jaan Pehechaan Ho]

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[nothing to fear]

why is telling her about your SA out of the question?

are there specific reasons you don't want to see the old high school people? maybe explain those to her?

 

[alpha dog]

Use this as exposure therapy.

 

[missgymnast91]

Do whatever you did in the good ol' days when she lived near you. And who is to say you have to party just because she suggested it. You can ask if you can do something else just you and her.

 

[zookeeper]

What if you suggested other things to do together, like go for coffee or a movie or something. Just tell her you're not into partying that much anymore.

 

[shyvr6]

Where in Nebraska does she live? I can go visit her and tell her about your dilema, lol. Ehh, just kidding, but what I would do is let her know that you would rather not hang out with those other people that you don't want to see. She will probably want to know why and I think if you're good friends with her then you should tell her why. I'm sure she'll understand.