Haha. This. What I was thinking too. If that profile photo is you then you seem quite attractive. If I met you I would also be feeling a mixture of fear and anger. Fear because hot girls are kind of scary and anger because I know that you would just reject me. Probably not even be willing to talk to me. And as far as looking away it is very difficult to maintain eye contact with a pretty girl when you aren't attractive yourself. Or maybe even when you are, but I wouldn't know about that.
I'm either too awkward or too crazy with people, so it's nice when u're around such people who u can be crazy with, otherwise I just get awkward, and feel uncomfortable and make others uncomfortable too. So I need to find "the middle" thingy u knowWhen i talk to people they can't look me in my eyes. They always look away wen i look at them and i dont know what i am doing wrong, i dont stare at them or anything but they look so uncomfortable. Sometimes they even look angry or freightened or something. I dont know what im doing wrong but it is making me uncomfortable around them too. I even have this with my own family. It makes me so unhappy that people feel this way around me. And it even makes me avoid people even more, which will make me even more awkard. I never do anything anymore because of this. Does anyone have any advice for me on what to do?
I fully understand the need to make a good impression. When, I'm talking to a girl I like, I try to funny (usually with success), but I always end up saying some stupid, unfunny thing im an awkward panic and I beat myself up for it for days. I guess, it's impossible to truly know if you made a good impression. But that doesn't stop me from agonizing over every single detail.I think its partially overthinking, but mostly the nervousness yes. But i cant help it. I want to give a good impression but that makes me nervous and awkard. And that obviously makes them uncomfortable .
I have precisely 'something' problemIk heb precies hetzelfde probleem, maar bij mij heeft het gewoon te maken met laag zelfvertrouwen.
Jij bent nog lekker jong, 1 ding waar ik spijt van heb is dat ik rond jouw leeftijd was, niet een sociale activiteit heb gedaan, bijvoorbeeld lid zijn van een sportclub, muziekvereniging of een vechtsport. Mijn advies is, vind een hobby waarbij je in teamverband veel met leeftijdsgenoten doorbrengt, zo werk je langzaam aan je zelfvertrouwen.Ik heb dat ook jaa.
Not to mention that she's in high school. At that age I'd be so intimidated by a pretty girl there is no way I'd be able to carry on a conversation.