I like an extrovert male who lives in a state I would like to move to. He enjoys socializing at bars, but I feel so uncomfortable in that environment. If I meet him while I am in town, I would feel less anxious if we spent time alone without anyone else in the background. He already invited me for coffee, but I would prefer more of a private setting. Don't freak when I say this, but I have considered inviting him to my hotel room because I would feel at home there. It would be a room with a suite (couch, etc) or look more like an apartment than a hotel room. Can you think of any other places where we could be alone? I just do not want to appear too nervous around him. By the way, he is a safe person to meet so there is no fear of rape.