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I also hate small talk anyways though and getting to know people because you have to pretend to give a **** about **** you don't give a **** about and I have to pretend to be someone I'm not or else I will scare them away lol. I have to pretend to care about mundane pointless subjects and I end up being terse.Same here, the only way i've passed this freeze is liquid courage. There is a danger zone if I reach it my jokes become more vulgar. I'm going through a little training trying to catch details about the person I'm speaking with. Like if they were wearing TNMT shirts. I'd jump on that and try and progress to other topics. I think this is the most difficult 'muscle' to train and strengthen I can as far as the weather and lock up:roll
But you don't need to be friends with everyone. If the convo dies then let it happen.I also hate small talk anyways though and getting to know people because you have to pretend to give a **** about **** you don't give a **** about and I have to pretend to be someone I'm not or else I will scare them away lol. I have to pretend to care about mundane pointless subjects and I end up being terse.