How to overcome shyness pls ?

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AKA John

Discussion Starter · Aug 21, 2011

I don't talk much at school and the main reason is when i'm with my friends i have a lot of think to talk with them. But things become really weird when i meet stranger or person i wanna make friend with, my mind just go blank and don't know what should i talk about :doh it's really annoying me. In my class there's a new guy which is not good looking but he always crack jokes on every classmate s and they love him. I'm not jealous with him or other people. i just feel very upset about myself and always ask myself WTF is wrong with you man :bash he can do it and why can't you idiot

. The thing that upset me the most is there is a beautiful girl in my class which is my crush and i feel ashamed and wanna die when that man crack joke with her and her friends, believe me it really suck for me :flush . Does anybody have been through this or i'm the one lonely on this planet :cry

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animal341

· #2 · Aug 23, 2011

AKA John said:
I don't talk much at school and the main reason is when i'm with my friends i have a lot of think to talk with them. But things become really weird when i meet stranger or person i wanna make friend with, my mind just go blank and don't know what should i talk about :doh it's really annoying me. In my class there's a new guy which is not good looking but he always crack jokes on every classmate s and they love him. I'm not jealous with him or other people. i just feel very upset about myself and always ask myself WTF is wrong with you man :bash he can do it and why can't you idiot . The thing that upset me the most is there is a beautiful girl in my class which is my crush and i feel ashamed and wanna die when that man crack joke with her and her friends, believe me it really suck for me :flush . Does anybody have been through this or i'm the one lonely on this planet :cry

The first part was kinda tough to understand but I see what you're going through. It's like we know that people are better than us so we never even try :/ Feel the same way about a girl in my class to

Worst part is she actually tried talking to me at one point..I couldn't. It was like my mind went completely blank for that minute that I was talking to her. School is starting up again in 2 weeks - I hope I can do better socially than my first year of hs :|

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lonelyjew

· #3 · Aug 23, 2011

If you think there is any easy answer here, you're going to be disappointed. Constantly take small, positive steps, saying a little more, eventually making a joke or two, and go from there. Just keep pushing forward, even if it's slow, you'll still eventually get there.

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AKA John

Discussion Starter · #4 · Aug 24, 2011

animal341: i'm so depress now, i can feel the world is forgetting me :rain . you know every time i talk to people especially those beautiful girls i rarely look them in the eyes for a couple seconds because i'm scare and lost confident because of my acne scar and my not handsome has put me down so much:evil

Lonelyjew: thank you for your advice:thanks it's true that even thought we move slowly but in the end we will reach our destination.

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