[Gerard]

how do you set goals for yourself?

i like looking over my condition and it seems i suffer from a mild SA, and what i really lack in my life is meaningful friendships...i can seem to get to know any person to an acquaintance level beyond that it seems impossible....so i dont know....anyone can help me out here?

 

[SunLite]

Keep on putting yourself in social situations. Evenutally you could be like hey we should hang out sometime gimme ur number. Then get together and do whatever. I find that I gotta take the initiative most of the time otherwise **** don't get done. Like people will call me back only if I call them first and all that. So you gotta take the first step since no one really knows how special of a person you are yet.