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I would like to change myself but this is ****ing hard when people have expectations that you are going to be quiet so when you try your hardest to be outgoing they point it out and shoot you down
 

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It's hard because that's what they have come to know you as, but you have to be persistant, and hopefully over a little bit of time they will start to accept the new you and will forget about the old you.
 

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actually if someone speaks who is usually quiet i will give him/her full attention, because seeing someone like that speaking is rare.

so i guess people give more attention to quiet people when they speak up, so this makes it even harder to talk for you. but i wouldnt say they are mean and shoot you up?!
 
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