how about a "I just wouldn't do it" option, I wouldn't go, but it was because I have nothing to remember there, seeing people and their happy lives may make me depressed, and I never really knew that many people anyway, and the ones I do know, 3 of them, I talk to on xbox live so I don't need to go to a reunion to see them, even though I never see them in the first place and just keep it on xbox. Its better to just forget it and hope I can have a new life somewhere else.