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Hey everyone.

I've been lurking around these forums for around a year, posting like, 3 times or something. I never really felt like writing too much online as I even have SA online, but I think it will be good for me to let out my feelings in here, to people who will probably understand me alot better, than the people I'm around irl.
I really enjoy these forums and I would even say that some of the posts in here has made my

My name is Lasse, I'm almost 17 years old now and from Denmark.
I have had social anxiety since I was about 13 I guess, but back then I thought I was just shy. I was always one of the more popular boys in school, but was never good with girls, AT ALL. Never had a girlfriend even though I have had the possibility to go out with some quite good looking girls along the years, but I always found some LAME excuse not to hang out with them.

I am very good at putting people on pedestals, thinking they are better than me and everything they say is right.
My life has sucked for the last year, after I dropped soccer at high level, mainly because of my insecurities, but also laziness I guess..
Since then it's gone downhill.

Atm. I wake up, I go to school, try hard to maintain my image as a 'good-looking' mid popular guy, by socializing as much as my tired brain will allow me. Though, no socialising with girls, other than a few words randomly, I just cant strike up a conversation, from fear that I will be humiliated. I try really hard not to be seen as quiet by my classmates, as I hate being addressed as quiet. I go home, go to the gym, get home, be on the computer, sleep.
This process is repeated 5x a week, and on the weekends it's pretty much just, computer, sleep, and I'm getting sick and tired of this :(

I'm sorry I had to share my whole life-story, and actually I was having difficulties writing this as you probably don't really give a sh*t about my miserable self, but I thought letting this out would help a bit.

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Hey Lasse, welcome to :sas
 

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I have a similar situation. I got to school, never talk to any girls, very few friends. On the weekends it's just computer and sleep for me :blank
 

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I think I remember you or at least a post. Glad to have you here, CristianoRonaldo! :)
 

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:wel

And don't worry about posting. Looking like a fool clearly doesn't stop me from posting.:lol
 
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