Just dropped off my girls at a church sponsored fun event. They didn't want to go. They are not neurotypical, popular girls. They don't have any friends at church. Maybe one or two kids they talk to once in awhile. It's hard for me to see them not fitting in. They are outcasts among people who preach brotherly love. I wish there were teens who would talk to them, but it doesn't happen. I know communication goes both ways. It'd just be nice at least at church to see more social people reach out to shyer ones, and care and not give up.