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Good Paying, Socially Limited, Low Stress Jobs?

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Hi I was wondering what are some high paying socially stress free or socially limited jobs. For instance from what I gather a computer programmer would be one type of job. My uncle is a computer programmer and it only recently occured to me he is an omnivert leaning more towards the introvert side. He also really likes computers. I live in Canada and am thinking about my future. I want to be in a career that suits my personality but at the same time gives me a decent wage. I have some serious problems with sleep. The problem is insomnia. I would really like a job that starts in the afternoon. For instance. There was a job I saw recently posted for a janitor for schools in the Toronto area. Now this job might not appeal to the majority of the population. It however struck a chord with me. The jos starts at $15.53/hr Canadian (not bad at all) and the shift starts at 3pm. This is the perfect time for me to start work. Why because if I stay up all night tossing and turnning I'll still have some time to sleep in. So here's what I'm getting at. The rules for replying to this post are as follows.

1. Name a high-paying socially stress free job.
2. Name the amount of time needed to invest in the education
to get this job. The shorter the better.

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You spend more than half your waking life at work. Don't base your choice on what's the easiest on your anxiety. Base it on what's interesting to you. Stretch outside your comfort zone, or you're going to be socially avoidant as well as anxious your whole life.

Besides, all those jobs sound boring.

- Medical Transcriptionist
- Security Guard
- Janitor
- Data Entry
- Computer Programmer
- Merchansdiser
- Radiologist
- Truck driver

*yawn*
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I am currently at the point where I will graduate in a few months but I am avoiding jobs that I could take, all because of my SA.

I advise that before one starts college they should make sure they will be able to handle the social aspects of their chosen field.

Going into college I thought that I would be over SA by now, but I'm still struggling with it.
LittleZion said:
You spend more than half your waking life at work. Don't base your choice on what's the easiest on your anxiety. Base it on what's interesting to you. Stretch outside your comfort zone, or you're going to be socially avoidant as well as anxious your whole life.
:agree

I'd actually prefer some social interaction with a career. I don't think I'd like a job where i'd be completely isolated all day. I meet about maybe 50 ppl a week with my current job and I kinda like it. I avoid social situations elsewhere because its free talk n stuff, but at work its all about business so as long as I know my stuff I'm good. I've even built up relationships with some regular customers. :)

The only thing I think i'd dislike would be having to deal with co-workers.
Hmm...what jobs would have little to no co-workers?
Gumaro said:
radiologist. all MDs get paid a high salary, more if you have your own business. all you do is read x-rays, MRs, ultrasounds, etc. and dictate them. you dont even have to tell the patient whats wrong, the referring physican does that. not sure how long it takes in school though
I was reading there was a big demand for Radiologists. I also wonder what kind of schooling you would have to do. I will have to look into it.
Around here (Southeast Michigan), I looked into radiation therapy a few years ago and it is basically a two year internship at a hospital, nonpaid. You need 3 letters of recommendation and be able to pass biology, chemistry, physics and math classes through the hospital. It is best to do it when you are young because you have to do it during the morning shift like 7am-4pm. If you have a family or have a lot of bills it will be hard to do it because it is like a full time job. The worst part is that after the 2 years it is not a given that you will get a job offer.

Being an actual radiologist takes even more schooling than a radiation therapist.

It is difficult to get in, but if you can handle it, it is good pay.

my 2 cents

Truck driving is the best example of a good paying socially limited job, although you would have to be by yourself for many hours.
Paranoid wack job. Serial Killer. Spree Killer. Hermit. There I said it. Lousy pay, great notoriety. Thats all you're gonna get trying to cut yourself off from people. :twisted
I don't plan on hiding in a hole, but I'd like a job where social interaction is not the main duty. A while back I worked at a dog track, basically all I did was jog and stuff dogs into metal boxes. Horrible pay but good exercise.

I'm interested in being an EMT but I need to get a job to pay for getting certified first.
Librarian. I've looked into this. If you get your masters you'll get paid 30K-80K a year with benefits. And you don't have to deal with people much and there are always jobs because nobody wants to be a librarian.
depends on what you want to do

If you are comfortable making decent, not great money, there are a lot of jobs where you don't have to "interact" with people all the time.

But the truth is, unless you want to keep jumping from one deadend job that pays avg to another, you will need to interact.

As you get older, jobs are more about Networking skills than actual skills. Yeah you might need to know what your're doing, but the last few years in most fields, there are tons of people with the same skills as you going for the same job.

In reality every job is a sales job.

Because if you can't sell yourself at an interview, you won't get the job.
But if you know so and so from ABC company who knows the hiring manager or somebody else at XYZ company, your chances become a lot better at getting hired.

And once you get a job, it's nice to sit in a cubicle or wherever you sit or stand and not interact with people that much, but as time goes on, either your position will be eliminated or you will be replaced by younger eager and less paid talent.

Most people don't get a job at 22 and retire at 62 for the same company these days.

It's about communicating , interacting, and networking.

Without it, it's hard to find a good professional career. It doesn't matter if it's white collar or blue collar.

The truth is, if you want to make good money, your going to have to learn how to interact with others on a daily basis. You don't have to become an extrovert, but hiding all the time only hurts your career.
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well said pjam. I too have noticed that networking and having good references is really the best way to get the job. Interaction is difficult, especially for me, which is why I am trying to improve my interaction with people. Being friendly with people at work is the best way to get connected to future jobs.

This is exactly what happpened to me:

"And once you get a job, it's nice to sit in a cubicle or wherever you sit or stand and not interact with people that much, but as time goes on, either your position will be eliminated or you will be replaced by younger eager and less paid talent."

Because of SA I was unwilling to seek advancement at my last job and now I am out of a job and seeking a new job, without much luck.

All jobs are about selling yourself and having a network, which is more important than actually having the skills. You have to be better than the competition.

Once again, good post.
it sucks

But it's the way it is.

It's who you know more than what you know.

I know how you feel because I lost a job, for various reasons, job cuts, dept cuts, new management, etc but one of those reasons was because of SA. It might not have been the main one, but over time, other opportunities were passed over because I wasn't the social butterfly.

ANd it's tough getting real references if your not much of a social person.
Yeah you might do good work and work hard, but people really don't know you and then looking for that next job is real hard when you have nobody in your field from the last job to call and your references are more your close friends and family then former co-workers.

For one job, I had to fill out a packet with job history, background history, and location history etc and for some of the info it was hard because,
"who knew you?" at some place I lived for like six months 8 years past.
I didn't really know anybody there and situations like that came up again and again and it was hard answering later on , "why i didn't answer certain things correctly."

People don't want to hear, "because I didn't talk to anybody when I lived there."
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copper said:
Gumaro said:
radiologist. all MDs get paid a high salary, more if you have your own business. all you do is read x-rays, MRs, ultrasounds, etc. and dictate them. you dont even have to tell the patient whats wrong, the referring physican does that. not sure how long it takes in school though
I was reading there was a big demand for Radiologists. I also wonder what kind of schooling you would have to do. I will have to look into it.
Copper is right, there is a large demand for radiologists. I'm in the radiation sciences program at the University of Toronto not as a radiologist but as a radiation therapist. According to what I hear from my peers studying radiology, there is definately more to the profession than just reading x-rays. At U of T, it is a three year degree program that you need to apply to get in after you have a minimum of one year university. I woudn't say its too competitive to get in but the program itself requires a lot of studying and definately alot of patient interaction.
I observed an ultrasound tech for a day when I was thinking of going into that field. During this I had a chance to see the radiologists in action. The radiologists worked closely with the ultrasound, xray and mammography techs. They discuss what they see on the film/video, and then the radiologist is the one to make the diagnosis (if possible). I could see where it would be a rewarding, but demanding job.
ImShy said:
Librarian. I've looked into this. If you get your masters you'll get paid 30K-80K a year with benefits. And you don't have to deal with people much and there are always jobs because nobody wants to be a librarian.
It's not a bad job really.

Truck driving sounds good to me, just stick on the radio and eat fast food all days sounds good to me.
I quite like the idea of being a postman, out and about in all weathers, and only quick "hello"s and "good morning"s from the public, who (on the whole) will be pleased to see you.

What's putting me off is the "laddish" culture I would face in the collection office. Not all the work is done alone.
That, and the lousy pay :roll
The person who works in museum collections organizing. Im not sure exactly what that title is. Or as an archiveist of somekind.

My job, as a chemist, is pretty isolating. So much so in fact that it is one of the reasons I am leaving it to go back to school. This is a good thing though, it means I am doing better!

You asked for limited education jobs though, but you can get a job as a lab tech with just a high school diploma in many places.

But I think that you should go for a job that has the possiblilty of steadily increasing social interaction, then use your job to slowly force yourself to overcome your SA, at least in a workplace situation.

EMT is VERY stressful. You will be responding to injured people, and sometimes you even get shot at (this is rare but a friend of mines EMT partner died this way).
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