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Should I just ask one of my female platatonic friends :

why do you find me unattractive


Or will this just lead to negative results and the spreading off ( pst, watch out for Vince, he is desperate ) type rumours.

At this point I really would like some feedback, but I wonder if anyone I know personally would give me honest feedback, without telling all of her friends.

And unless I happen to meet "the girl" I don't think I'm gonna be dating a for a few months to come.
 

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Ask, but phrase it differently, so it sounds positive. Like "What is attractive about me? What can I do to be more attractive?" Make it clear you want her opinion as a platonic friend, and you're not hitting on her.
 
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