[downbutnotout]

Does anyone got this feeling that its not like we are afraid of going out side but dont want to i mean i dont know like you got this lazyness that you dont want to do social stuff and its better to be alone in the house like in one point you want gf friends affecting caring loving and all this stuff but wont do anything for it like if someone asks you to go somewhere you say no.

Yes, this is exactly how it is for me. I dont actually like social activities. But i didn't have problems getting invites to places in the past. I just didn't want to go to those places.

 

[downbutnotout]

isn't you definition basically social axiety itself though, we don't have "outdoor anxiety", just "social".

Its hard to describe. I fear places. But once i'm used to them i usually get comfortable with them. And it depends who is there. if i see someone that looks intimidating, i will leave.

I dont have any desire to go to places, but i do want friends etc. The problem is that alot of people like going out alot.

I guess i'm just an introvert with social anxiety. I can go out, but people intimidate me, and i dont have much interest in just going to a bowling alley or something like that.