If you really talk to ten girls a day at your school then that's really good first of all :yes, I wish I could do that lol. I talk to at most 1, 2 is a really good day :lolWell this has not happened in awhile. Lets say I communicate with 10 girls a day in school and outside of school 98% of the time all 10 have great conversation with me. Its just that once in awhile incidents that happen especially girls I am friendly with suddenly stop talking to me or think I did something creepy is what hurts my self-esteem.
What sucks even more is if they have mutual friends or talk to other girls I am interested in, it depends or the girl but if they gossip much which most girls do, they can talk **** about you and usually exaggerate as I have had girls tell me how rude or weird a person is but when I talk to the person in question, sure some of them are just as weird as they say to a lessor extent, but the majority of the time all their talk is bull**** and there is nothing "creepy " about the person is question. But most girls that gossip tend to believe their friends and automatically have preconceived views in the person in question which I fear could happen to me which has happened before in my life and will not give me a chance labeling me or someone else as "creepy" and makes it harder for me to make friendships with girls since they will already hate me based on what their friends say unless they have known me and had positive interaction with me before being gossiped about is an incident happens. That's what I really fear and it takes a blow at my self image and confidence.
then why did she suddenly turn up at the station alone like never before? let alone in sunglasses, which definitely indicates some shady intention, such as "cheating on boyfriend"Maybe she began to realize that you may like her and decided that she didn't want to go down that road.
Well you're obviously not here for advice, so what are you here for then? Just to have someone to relate to i guess? Whatever have fun getting anywhere with that. It's like you just ignore the stuff that helps you, and would rather complain about how your life supposedly sucks. You're pretty stubborn man.Have any of the guys here ever had a girl be nice to you and then for some awkward moment or after you were alone with her, she walked away before you can say anything or say hi?
Basically was nice to you around your friends or and great friendship but after something creepy you did just never wanted to be near you and just the sign of you walked away?
No, I think that would have been fine. If you had looked away and she said something about it later, you had a good excuse since she was wearing sunglasses. Just say you weren't sure who it was.I could not say anything since I locked up and instead of jolting my head back which would make it more awkward