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Can I ask a question? Do any of you find that since you are shy you get turned on really easily if someone is in your personal space? How do you deal with that? BTW I'm a guy.
i do this too. maybe it's so much stronger for us because we don't get much physical contact? i get hyper-aware of all my movements if i'm alone in a space with a guy or if a guy is standing/sitting too close to me.FYI, I'll probably delete my answer later cuz I'll be embarrassed by it
So, I'm female and I don't really get "turned on" but if its someone who I think is especially attractive or whatever, I will have an almost overwhelming physical "reaction."
Like once I was in the tv room my dorm building and it was just me and this cute guy working on his work like I was, who I'd never seen/spoken to before and we were watching this movie and he made a couple comments about it, and I made the obligatory chuckle, and in later days, I only saw him a couple times when he sat right ****ing next to me in the computer lab-we didn't say anything to each other but I knew it was him, and I felt distracted from what I was doing, I felt too aware of all my movements, I hoped that I was looking good that day.......
Then this other time, I have this habit of staring, and I stared at this one guy like a totally crazy person one day and then I couldn't stop thinking about him(and he also lived in this dorm!)and one day we ended up being in the same elevator for 3 floors, and I pretended to be immersed in my mp3 player but all the while, I was aware of him, and my face started getting hot esp since he had his body turned towards me
So yeah,, I've felt you've felt
:lolI feel this all the time, the other time for example a woman who did not a have a supermodel body but she KNEW she was sexy asked me to carry some stuff of hers over to the cash register. I almost got a full on boner because I was walking behind her carrying the stuff and she just smelled so good and walked in such a sexy way. She wasn't even wearing revealing clothes or anything.
LOL i never get like that, not FULL ON anyways lolI feel this all the time, the other time for example a woman who did not a have a supermodel body but she KNEW she was sexy asked me to carry some stuff of hers over to the cash register. I almost got a full on boner because I was walking behind her carrying the stuff and she just smelled so good and walked in such a sexy way. She wasn't even wearing revealing clothes or anything.
I can relate ^ The hyperawareness of all my movements is the worst. I hate it.FYI, I'll probably delete my answer later cuz I'll be embarrassed by it
So, I'm female and I don't really get "turned on" but if its someone who I think is especially attractive or whatever, I will have an almost overwhelming physical "reaction."
Like once I was in the tv room my dorm building and it was just me and this cute guy working on his work like I was, who I'd never seen/spoken to before and we were watching this movie and he made a couple comments about it, and I made the obligatory chuckle, and in later days, I only saw him a couple times when he sat right ****ing next to me in the computer lab-we didn't say anything to each other but I knew it was him, and I felt distracted from what I was doing, I felt too aware of all my movements, I hoped that I was looking good that day.......
Then this other time, I have this habit of staring, and I stared at this one guy like a totally crazy person one day and then I couldn't stop thinking about him(and he also lived in this dorm!)and one day we ended up being in the same elevator for 3 floors, and I pretended to be immersed in my mp3 player but all the while, I was aware of him, and my face started getting hot esp since he had his body turned towards me like he was looking at me[EDIT] Luckily I got to my floor before my face turned full on red
So yeah,, I've felt what you've felt
i wasn't aware of thisthere's 3 girls for everywhere 1 guy so theres just so much to chose from.
Haha! I have that problem too, and it's so irritating. you're like, wait a minute, I just met him.. You're just really glad he can't hear what a psycho you really are. I hate it, I certainly don't understand it. I'm emotionally easy :noit is much too easy for me to view other people as potential romantic interests. If I guy is nice to me, I'll always think, "Maybe he could be the one!" and then I immediately feel like a retarded baboon. It's so embarrassing!