Does anyone else have a hard time with this? For a while now I have had a very hard time focusing on what I really need in order to better myself. For instance, my family, education, and career are very important to me and should get most of my energy and time, but I become distracted easily. I feel like I am in a constant state of revery and always day dreaming about finding the right partner. Personal struggles and being unconfident in myself makes it easier for me to loose focus on things that could better my life. I need to get out more as well, but feel stuck in this state of mind that things will always be the same. I need to forget about what I really want right now, like a relationship among other things and focus on what I need this is just easier said than done.