Star I am so sorry that you're going through this........
I pray to God I live to be at least 80, where most of this is in acceptable health, that means all the more time I get to watch my daughter;-). As a mother yourself.....What you want most, is to watch your child grow, see that they have a family of their own, that your child is happy;-D to see your grand kids........You're (oops, glad I reread, I wrote NOT in there!!!) happily married;-D your Mom got to see your daughter;-) in that manner, she's a very lucky women, and probably quite content.
While I don't know your Mom's personality............I'm thinking at this point in her life............You know what she would want.......Respect, dignity;-)
I pray to God I live to be at least 80, where most of this is in acceptable health, that means all the more time I get to watch my daughter;-). As a mother yourself.....What you want most, is to watch your child grow, see that they have a family of their own, that your child is happy;-D to see your grand kids........You're (oops, glad I reread, I wrote NOT in there!!!) happily married;-D your Mom got to see your daughter;-) in that manner, she's a very lucky women, and probably quite content.
While I don't know your Mom's personality............I'm thinking at this point in her life............You know what she would want.......Respect, dignity;-)