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Does anyone here feel emotionally confused let me give you some examples....... i wanna make friends but because my anxiety i struggle, and when i do meet someone especially women i start to get very close and expect the same back when i should just kick back and let things flow easy and play hard to get or be friends, but i get so confused as to what i'm meant to do or act like that i lose it completely and end up doing the wrong thing like either end up burning a bridge or get too close and give too much attention and expect the same back, and when they don't recipricate i get angry. how do i just be normal like everyone else who can maintain relationships and be normal around and with peolpe. as soon as i meet a girl i fall for her staright away without getting to know her why does that happen, i don't know even know what kinda girlfriend i want or even if i want one, it's so confusing. also i don't know what to say to them sometimes because i'm so scared of saying the wrong thing even if it isn't a bad thing to say
 

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I get like that all the time. I don't know when to push or pull back in a friendship (don't even get me started about girls I like...). It seems like most people I meet (my age or not) just aren't looking for close friends, so whenever I want to get closer they pull back like I crossed some sort of line. It sucks so bad not having any close friends :(
 
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