Well, as pretty as you are, I am surprised that you haven't had complete strangers send you friend invites.it has made me feel even worse like a loner....why did i do this? i have no friends it is embarrassing. should i just delete it? also, it makes me feel bad that no one has contacted me i have contacted them...pitiful.
I only have three on Facebook. I agree with you in the popularity issue. I think MySpace and Facebook are all about how many friends one has on there. I could care less. The more people, the more paranoid I get. Also, I don't want people who used to pick on me in school to find me.My cousins, sister, and brothers all have between 300 and 700 'friends' on facebook, and I have 63. Of those 63, there are about 5 I'd say are good friends. Speaking for myself, it's easy to feel down when I see pictures of my brother dancing up a storm with a hot girl surrounded by 5 other friends. But I think there's a lot of posing going on with these sites, in that people like to make themselves look more popular than they feel. My brother says the majority of his 'friends' are people he met once, added, and never talks to. That's probably why some of them add so many contacts, so they can look at their myspace or facebook account and feel popular! If you're using myspace to keep in touch with real friends, you probably won't have as many contacts...but the ones you do have will be meaningful people in your life rather than just names on a webpage.
If you ever feel friendless, drop me a line and maybe we can become friends. :]