anyone ever said this to you everytime you did something or just simply talking to other peoples in public?peoples always said "don't be nervous,take it slow" and that'll makes me more nervous.
Same thing here. My drivere's test was an absolute disaster that took months for me to get over. When I took the test, I knew perfectly how to drive, what to do, but I SUCK so hard at taking tests. The written part was ridiculously easy, but I still screwed it up. When it was time for the driving part I screwed up just as bad. Before we got going she asked a few ?s about where things were in the car. I couldn't find the emergency flashers button(pathetic on it's own, but even worse since I had just done some work on the center console a few days earlier) I was just too flustered. And when we finally got on the rode, all we had to do is make 3 right turns. My nerves made me run off the road twice. I knew how to drive, I was already in the street racing scene. Test anxiety along with the instructor over my shoulder totally screwed with my mind.I took my driver's temps test a few years ago and the whole time my heart was racing, i was sweating, and shaking. my boyfriend asked me why i was so nervous, 'its just a test'. tests are NOT MY THING, never have been. they made me hate school so much, aside from the fact that i just hated being around people. i can't help the fact that i get extremely nervous and anxious at the drop of a pin. =/
very true. We really don't want anyone noticing and when someone does notice it, then it's all downhill from then on.I had a very extroverted boss who would do this all the time. He'd stand over my shoulder while I was doing an important, time-critical job, and then get all baffled about why that would make me so nervous. Of course him asking me why I was so nervous would only make me even more nervous...
for me, if people said "you're so quite" to me, that will make me More quite. :|anyone ever said this to you everytime you did something or just simply talking to other peoples in public?peoples always said "don't be nervous,take it slow" and that'll makes me more nervous.