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Im in a bit of a conundrum, about a month ago i broke up with my gf. and since then weve still done everything we did when we were dating (and i do mean everything) i know its unhealthy even tho it feels good, i just feel so guilty

so im kind of caught in between; i feel like my "relationship" with her makes me almost feel like im cheating on her when i flirt with other girls (even tho shes doing the same to me) and on the other hand, i feel like this bizarre "friends-with-benefits" type situation is holding me back. im just not sure on what the right thing to do is :/

its not even that big of a deal for me right now, i just wish i didnt feel so rotten, like im doing something morally wrong. i have a few "irons in the fire" so to speak that i want to pursue, but i feel like im stuck. not because i feel obligated to her, but more because i still have some residual feelings towards her
 

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yeah im pretty sure were broken up since shes already "going out" with another guy. honestly shes just confusing the heck out of me, next time we hang out im going to resist the urge to do anything sexual
 

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i realize this thread makes me sound like a jerk (sorry) i just needed to get it out

thank you black widow, you dont know how good it feels to know someone else has gone through the same thing. its just hard to stay away when she wants to see me (i have trouble saying no) i know that ill be fine in the end and what ever happens happens
 

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things just got a little more complicated, her father is in the hospital with heart problems. and she needs me for emotional support, i hope everything turns out ok. i hate to see her like this
 
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