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Im in a bit of a conundrum, about a month ago i broke up with my gf. and since then weve still done everything we did when we were dating (and i do mean everything) i know its unhealthy even tho it feels good, i just feel so guilty
so im kind of caught in between; i feel like my "relationship" with her makes me almost feel like im cheating on her when i flirt with other girls (even tho shes doing the same to me) and on the other hand, i feel like this bizarre "friends-with-benefits" type situation is holding me back. im just not sure on what the right thing to do is :/
its not even that big of a deal for me right now, i just wish i didnt feel so rotten, like im doing something morally wrong. i have a few "irons in the fire" so to speak that i want to pursue, but i feel like im stuck. not because i feel obligated to her, but more because i still have some residual feelings towards her
so im kind of caught in between; i feel like my "relationship" with her makes me almost feel like im cheating on her when i flirt with other girls (even tho shes doing the same to me) and on the other hand, i feel like this bizarre "friends-with-benefits" type situation is holding me back. im just not sure on what the right thing to do is :/
its not even that big of a deal for me right now, i just wish i didnt feel so rotten, like im doing something morally wrong. i have a few "irons in the fire" so to speak that i want to pursue, but i feel like im stuck. not because i feel obligated to her, but more because i still have some residual feelings towards her