I'm so angry at my husband. He was talking to his sister and I on the phone, and they both insist that my girls can work 20 hours a week at a job. They have add,sa, all sorts of issues. They can barely get through the school day. They are also learning disabled. They have the stress to perform and to socialize all day. They get home and need down time. they do not stay after school to talk or play sports or join clubs. I do work to get them into things that fit their personalities, like karate or improv. I would like them to have a part time job, but only if it's a good fit for their personality, and not too stressful. I told my husband, how would he like it if he had to work all day, come home and go back to work for 4 hours? I'd rather the girls socialized with a friend on the weekend.Yes, they could find a friend at a job, but they're not the type to stand around and gossip and chit chat. That is why I think it's better for them to be in after school activities that are focused on a certain subject, like anime. anyway, I'm just fuming mad that my husband can't even support me and takes his sister's side, which is basically all teens are the same and are all capable of doing the same schedule. Sister says teens all have lots of energy. She has no idea what she's talking about. One of my girls have very low affect. Sister was popular, partied, dressed fashionably, had boyfriends, etc. Please someone tell me how to get through to her, even if i should try. I think I'll just say oh, yes, i see, hmm...as far as my husband I can;t believe he doesn't understan what I'm trying to say. teens with sa are different!