[Andres124]

You're severely limiting your options there... Is waiting until marriage part of your religion?

I'm catholic

 

[Zeppelin]

No, I do not plan on losing my virginity when I'm married. I plan on having a loveless, meaningless, abusive marriage with no intimacy involved whatsoever. We'll be sleeping in separate beds in separate rooms. Will remain married to each other for the sake of the kids, and by kids I mean literal baby goats, because as I have pointed out already, there shall be no loss of virginity, and in order for two people who love each other very much (which we wont) to have kids, they need to...:whip

:clap

 

[Farideh]

Absolutely. My father bought me a purity ring. I don't like wearing rings so I wear it as a necklace instead and people always ask me what it is. I've been in situations where guys wanted to have sex with me and I realized they don't deserve my virginity so I said no and never spoke to them again. Hopefully I won't meet more guys like that. I realized I want to do it with someone who I love and who actually loves me. That's what makes it really intimate and special.

 

[kast]

I'm catholic

Ah ok, because I've even heard of completely non-religious people who want to wait. What's the reasoning behind waiting until marriage rather than simply waiting until you love someone? What if you're not compatible?

 

[komorikun]

Two of my ex-bfs were catholic.

 

[mdiada]

I planned to wait, yes. But some things just don't work out as "planned".

 

[identitycrisis]

Wow, I can't believe the disdain some of you folks have for someone who would rather wait until marriage. Especially in today's world, I think it would show great strength of character, and show commitment to someone without requiring your sexual needs sated in return. I don't buy into this "sexual compatibility" nonsense. If you're getting married to someone, I hope you've already learned how to communicate your needs to your partner.

 

[nullptr]

Haha I'd be lucky to meet a girl that notices me.

 

[AceEmoKid]

I don't think I even have the strong urge to get married. And even if that was a distant possibility....why wait? No point. I go with the flow anyway. lol.

 

[ACCV93]

LOL hopefully before I get married, if that ever happens...

 

[AlphaHydrae]

I'll be lucky to lose it, let alone get married. Here's to alcohol and feeling sorry for me :drunk

I agree haha. Doubt anyone would want me anyway!!

 

[AlphaHydrae]

Come on guys, find me SPEICIAL GAWD DAMN IT. XD

 

[meganmila]

Wow, I can't believe the disdain some of you folks have for someone who would rather wait until marriage. Especially in today's world, I think it would show great strength of character, and show commitment to someone without requiring your sexual needs sated in return. I don't buy into this "sexual compatibility" nonsense. If you're getting married to someone, I hope you've already learned how to communicate your needs to your partner.

If someone can make it work in the sexual department then good for them. Some people have low drives that sex doesn't even matter. But to others sex is important in a relationship. So it is a legitimate reason to break up with someone if you are not sexually compatible. I would cause sex is important to me and I could not be with someone that has no sex drive or we just don't agree on things. You don't buy into it well good for you...you can make it work without connecting sexually. For me it's totally different. And if you like sex and your needs are not getting met from your partner and then you frustrated and sad then you will think about other people. It has happened plenty of times.

 

[BillDauterive]

If some people want to have sex before marriage, that's fine. If some people want to save their virginity until marriage, that's fine too. Live and let live!

 

[ericastooge]

Yes I'm not a wh***, I'll wait to be married first.

 

[AussiePea]

Yes I'm not a wh***, I'll wait to be married first.

Woah woah, how does having sex before marriage make one a *****?

 

[BillDauterive]

I think marriage is the only way I CAN lose my virginity. I know there seems to be some sort of romanticism, idealism in losing it only with marriage with that soulmate you truly love. I guess I've also been drilled that a bit from my much more conservative culture and its values compared to the "West".

I'm certainly not going to demonize anyone who wants to have sex before marriage, nope, no way!

I'd really like to only have sex however with someone I truly love and she truly loves me in return. But I feel that'll never happen. I only see myself getting married to someone who wants me for some ulterior motive, like a green card, etc. We may eventually fall in love later, as what sometimes happens even in relationships which first start off with ulterior motives. I guess I don't feel so desperate for sex yet even being a 25 year old virgin to get married off with an "arranged marriage" ASAP or going to a prostitute.

Eh....

 

[kast]

Yes I'm not a wh***, I'll wait to be married first.

Wow. That's taking ****-shaming to a whole new level. Usually it's only directed at people who have had many sexual partners, not anyone who has had sex even once before marriage. 97% of the human race are wh*res now? Lol okay.

"A 2002 survey of about 12,500 men and women found that 97 percent of people who were no longer virgins at age 44 had sexual intercourse for the first time before they married."
http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2006/12/19/AR2006121901274.html

 

[Unknown88]

Yes I'm not a wh***, I'll wait to be married first.

Gee, thanks.

 

[arnie]

Yes, she'll take my purity on our wedding night and it will be perfect! Angels with be singing in our ears, we will both cry with pleasure and reach ecstasy in the same long moment and collapse in each others arms...our eternal love cemented.:blank

More likely: "I can't get the it in. Move down. Let's try a different position. Ow! You're hurting me! "