I'm curious as to how people see this. I've had a whopping 1 relationship in my life that lasted about 3 years. She was at the opposite end of the spectrum than me, very outgoing. And because of her personality, I feel I was able to push myself more in social situaitons and go into situations I never would have previously. Basically, she made me feel like a stronger more confident person.
But at the same time, sometimes I feel drawn to women with SA because I guess I feel I can relate to them on some level that another person could never understand. But I wonder if being around someone with SA would put a limit on how far I push myself. Plus, I don't want SA to be this 'thing' that bonds us, sometimes I just want to feel normal and not be reminded of my 'disorder'.
But at the same time, sometimes I feel drawn to women with SA because I guess I feel I can relate to them on some level that another person could never understand. But I wonder if being around someone with SA would put a limit on how far I push myself. Plus, I don't want SA to be this 'thing' that bonds us, sometimes I just want to feel normal and not be reminded of my 'disorder'.