hey! i know most people have some insecurties.. nobody is perfect by any means.. but when u constanlt feel down about urself then there must be a problem, right? bcuz that behavior is not normal. soo.. im going to try and explain this as much as possible.. it makes sense to me.. just hope it makes sense to others.. okay here it goes.. i like myself.. or at least it seems as though i always have.. i dont think im hidious or fat or stupid.. but i have this annoying fear that for some reason im just not good enough. and i cant figure out exactly what it is thats wrong or why im not good enough. its just not good enough in general maybe im not up to other ppls standards.. i even feel this way with friends n family.. maybe im a lil too heavy in their minds or maybe im not pretty enough and guys wont date me cuz there r much prettier girls out there.. when i see myself.. the view i have of myself is good usually.. but i feel that others dont think im good enough.. im 5'1" 108 lbs.. have brown hair n blue eyes and im 19. sometimes i feel like i need to lose a lil weight or bcuz im short i look a lil younger than 19 and it makes me feel so self consious i hate it so much so the real problem is.. am i being immature? am i thriving to be perfect? trying to be what I THINK others think i should be? y do i do this? and how do i stop it?