1)This happens to me too, but, think about it, how many times a day do people actually talk about pedophilia or necrophilia? It's not something that truly affects your life, and it's always very simple to say that you're not comfortable talking about these topics if anyone has a problem with your lack of input.Here are three of my problems..
1) I usually panick and blush when someone mention homosexuality, pedophila, zoophilia, necrophilia or his/her family member.. I'm scared s/he will misunderstand me and think I'm a homosexual, pedophile or zoophile or think that I have sexual fantasies about his/her family members.
2) Sometimes I involuntary laugh when someone mention or carry a cucumber, carrot or sasuage while talking to me.. I'm scared s/he will see me as a pervert.
3) I panick and act weird if I have a conversation with someone while carrying a knife or another dangerous thing that can be used to kill someone. I'm worried it will make her/him think I want to stab her/him with it.
Does anybody else have any of these problem? or is it only me? :|
Read the last sentence in each of your list of 3 problems. Each one is a maladaptive thought. Realize these thoughts are totally wrong. There is no way someone thinks you are a pervert because they are holding a cucumber, lol. Just read those sentences and see how ridiculous they are. Everyone has their own maladaptive thoughts, its just a matter of identifying them and realizing they are wrong.Here are three of my problems..
1) I usually panick and blush when someone mention homosexuality, pedophila, zoophilia, necrophilia or his/her family member.. I'm scared s/he will misunderstand me and think I'm a homosexual, pedophile or zoophile or think that I have sexual fantasies about his/her family members.
2) Sometimes I involuntary laugh when someone mention or carry a cucumber, carrot or sasuage while talking to me.. I'm scared s/he will see me as a pervert.
3) I panick and act weird if I have a conversation with someone while carrying a knife or another dangerous thing that can be used to kill someone. I'm worried it will make her/him think I want to stab her/him with it.
Does anybody else have any of these problem? or is it only me? :|