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This guy was telling me how me being shy made him feel very frustrated and how it was part of the reason he decided to see someone else. I wish he would have talked to me about this earlier. It seems like this thing is always ruining my life. It just makes me feel even more hopeless.
 

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That's a really lame excuse, did you not talk to him or something? Someone not willing to deal with shyness isn't worth your time in my opinion. I hope your day brightens up for you!
 

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He shouldn't be blaming you. It's his fault he wasn't more foward and knew how to talk to you. It just sounds like an excuse.
 

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This guy was telling me how me being shy made him feel very frustrated and how it was part of the reason he decided to see someone else. I wish he would have talked to me about this earlier. It seems like this thing is always ruining my life. It just makes me feel even more hopeless.
His loss.
If it was true, he would have pursued you more. He didn't know how to react to you.

The only thing you can do is be yourself. :stu
 

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You may have intimidated him. I had that happen once. A project manager at a big company. He and I went to have coffee and he said I intimidated him and he started crying. So maybe that is what happened to this guy. Either way his loss.
 
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