I am not gay and I am not attracted to men in any way but I feel like I understand emotions and and what people are feeling/thinking better than other guys. I feel kind of like how women are supposed to i.e very intelligent when it comes to the inside world of feelings and relationships. Perhaps this is why we have SA cause unlike other men we are very sensitive to emotions and we let them get the better of ourselves. What makes it harder though is it's not culturally acceptable for men to be this vulnerable way but it is for women. Just my thoughts.