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see what scores you guys get. Here is mine:

How high is your self-esteem?

You have scored 69.

What your scoring means
You have excellent self-esteem. You may well have had problems with valuing yourself in the past, but you have become a confident person with a proper appreciation of yourself. You are almost certainly someone who other people like and admire, and your belief in yourself helps you to make good friendships and relationships. However, your inner confidence also enables you to feel happy and relaxed when you are alone.

Test Link-
http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/interactive/interactivetests/selfesteem.php
 

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You have scored 61.

What your scoring means
You have quite good self-esteem on the whole. But you sometimes fail to believe in yourself enough. Remember you are a special and unique person. Many people with your score feel confident in what they do for a living and get a lot of affirmation from that. It's important however, to feel good about who you are, not just about what you do. Have a think about this.

Hmmm. This might be accurate to some extent. I have more confidence in my abilities than in who I am as a person, that's true. I wonder how the system decides what scoring message to give, though. If it's only the score (61 gets this message, 69 gets your message) then I don't know how accurate that would be. But if each individual sentence in the message is catered to different choices in the questionnaire then perhaps it's somewhat more accurate :)

In any case, thanks for sharing :) I always like learning about myself :yes
 

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You have scored 39.

What your scoring means
The chances are that you really don't like yourself much at all. And yet nature has made you utterly unique. You have as much right to be on this planet, and to do as well, as anyone else. You have great personal qualities. But they do need bringing out.

Hmmm. This might be accurate to some extent. I have more confidence in my abilities than in who I am as a person, that's true. I wonder how the system decides what scoring message to give, though. If it's only the score (61 gets this message, 69 gets your message) then I don't know how accurate that would be. But if each individual sentence in the message is catered to different choices in the questionnaire then perhaps it's somewhat more accurate :)
Not catered unfortunately, I answered that I do like myself and it says chances are that I don't.
 

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You have scored 49.

What your scoring means
Many people think you are confident and in charge of your life. You're not so sure! It may be that you had a difficult upbringing with parents who were too demanding of you. Or perhaps you have always felt that you're not as bright as other people think you are. Or maybe you feel unlovable.

If you're in a relationship, it's possible that you often feel anxious about it. Sometimes you may worry that you'll 'muck things up'. You may also have serious concerns that your partner may one day decide you're not worth loving.

I don't know.
 

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Not catered unfortunately, I answered that I do like myself and it says chances are that I don't.
That's too bad :( It would have been really cool if it was. I really wish that the legitimate quizzes/assessments that you typically have to pay for, like Myers-Briggs, career and IQ tests, were available online for free. The ones that try to "replicate" them don't tell us all that much about ourselves typically. Oh, well. I still love taking online quizzes even when I know they're not accurate haha :boogie
 

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You have scored 38.

What your scoring means

The chances are that you really don't like yourself much at all. And yet nature has made you utterly unique. You have as much right to be on this planet, and to do as well, as anyone else. You have great personal qualities. But they do need bringing out.

More than I expected...
 

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You have scored 42.

What your scoring means


The chances are that you really don't like yourself much at all. And yet nature has made you utterly unique. You have as much right to be on this planet, and to do as well, as anyone else. You have great personal qualities. But they do need bringing out.
 

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You have scored 57.

What your scoring means
You have quite good self-esteem on the whole. But you sometimes fail to believe in yourself enough. Remember you are a special and unique person. Many people with your score feel confident in what they do for a living and get a lot of affirmation from that. It's important however, to feel good about who you are, not just about what you do. Have a think about this.
 

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How high is your self-esteem?

You have scored 32.

What your scoring means
The chances are that you find life very difficult indeed.

Hooray positive thinking.
 

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You have scored 43.

What your scoring means
The chances are that you really don't like yourself much at all. And yet nature has made you utterly unique. You have as much right to be on this planet, and to do as well, as anyone else. You have great personal qualities. But they do need bringing out.
Okie dokie then.
 

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You have scored 50.

What your scoring means
Many people think you are confident and in charge of your life. You're not so sure! It may be that you had a difficult upbringing with parents who were too demanding of you. Or perhaps you have always felt that you're not as bright as other people think you are. Or maybe you feel unlovable.
If you're in a relationship, it's possible that you often feel anxious about it. Sometimes you may worry that you'll 'muck things up'. You may also have serious concerns that your partner may one day decide you're not worth loving.
Have a look at the article called 'self-esteem', which is on this website in the Sex and relationships section. There are plenty of tips in there to help you. And if you do a bit of work on improving your self-esteem, you'll find that you have fewer worries and that your life will run more smoothly.
 

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Nadaan Parinde Ghar Aa Ja
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You have scored 55.
What your scoring means
You have quite good self-esteem on
the whole. But you sometimes fail to
believe in yourself enough.
Remember you are a special and
unique person. Many people with
your score feel confident in what
they do for a living and get a lot of
affirmation from that. It's important
however, to feel good about who you
are, not just about what you do.
Have a think about this.

=D =)
 

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How high is your self-esteem?

You have scored 39.

What your scoring means
The chances are that you really don't like yourself much at all. And yet nature has made you utterly unique. You have as much right to be on this planet, and to do as well, as anyone else. You have great personal qualities. But they do need bringing out.
Have a look at the 'self-esteem' article. It contains lots of advice that you may find helpful to adopt. Also have a look at the recommended books, which could change your whole life.
You might also want to consider having some therapy. The treatment of choice for poor self-esteem is cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT).
There is much more provision for CBT treatment on the NHS these days. But it could be that your doctor might not consider your problem severe enough to warrant free treatment.
If by any chance this is true of you, and you still want to have CBT - you might want to consider paying to have it privately. You can find out more by going to the website of the British Association for Behavioural and Cognitive Psychotherapies.
 

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You have scored 34.

What your scoring means
The chances are that you find life very difficult indeed. You may well have a number of failed relationships behind you. Perhaps you've had problems with anger, or jealousy that have caused a split with a partner. You may also have found that your working life has been extremely disappointing
 

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You have scored 62.

What your scoring means
You have quite good self-esteem on the whole. But you sometimes fail to believe in yourself enough. Remember you are a special and unique person. Many people with your score feel confident in what they do for a living and get a lot of affirmation from that. It's important however, to feel good about who you are, not just about what you do. Have a think about this.
 

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Hmm...I really don't think people think that, like at all...

You have scored 53.

What your scoring means
Many people think you are confident and in charge of your life. You're not so sure! It may be that you had a difficult upbringing with parents who were too demanding of you. Or perhaps you have always felt that you're not as bright as other people think you are. Or maybe you feel unlovable.
If you're in a relationship, it's possible that you often feel anxious about it. Sometimes you may worry that you'll 'muck things up'. You may also have serious concerns that your partner may one day decide you're not worth loving.
 

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You have scored 57.

What your scoring means
You have quite good self-esteem on the whole. But you sometimes fail to believe in yourself enough. Remember you are a special and unique person. Many people with your score feel confident in what they do for a living and get a lot of affirmation from that. It's important however, to feel good about who you are, not just about what you do. Have a think about this.
You beat me by 1 point lol
 

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You have scored 61.

What your scoring means
You have quite good self-esteem on the whole. But you sometimes fail to believe in yourself enough. Remember you are a special and unique person. Many people with your score feel confident in what they do for a living and get a lot of affirmation from that. It's important however, to feel good about who you are, not just about what you do. Have a think about this.
 

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"You have scored 51.

What your scoring means
Many people think you are confident and in charge of your life. You're not so sure! It may be that you had a difficult upbringing with parents who were too demanding of you. Or perhaps you have always felt that you're not as bright as other people think you are. Or maybe you feel unlovable.
If you're in a relationship, it's possible that you often feel anxious about it. Sometimes you may worry that you'll 'muck things up'. You may also have serious concerns that your partner may one day decide you're not worth loving.
Have a look at the article called 'self-esteem', which is on this website in the Sex and relationships section. There are plenty of tips in there to help you. And if you do a bit of work on improving your self-esteem, you'll find that you have fewer worries and that your life will run more smoothly."



OOPS! I guess I had better work on that.
 
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