I've been reading Joel Osteen's book (7 steps to living) and it has helped me a lot. Joel has a way of getting people back to where they need to be spiritually. He helps me to let go of all the things that aren't necessary, start over every day and focus on the Lord. Every time I get knocked off my feet, I just pick up his book and it shoots me right back up. The main thing he points out is God being really loving and forgiving. No matter what you did or what happened to you the day before, God wants to give you a fresh start. He has great things in store for us and we just have let go of whatever is holding us down.