After getting over the icky side effects, I am feeling really great! I take 150 mg of WXL and 20 mgs of Lex each morning. I am feeling more confident and socially less nervous in places I normally would...eg in a crowded grocery store, talking to a super hot doctor in a clinic a few days ago, superiors at work, etc. I have lost 20 lbs, which has been amazing. I had about 15 lbs to lose before I was at my pre-pregnancy weight, and now I'm 5 below that and looking quite much like a yummy mummy lol. I know that really helps my self confidence too. I've been doing CBT with a therapist and using a work book (The Feel Good Handbook by Burns). Mainly I'm trying to refocus my nervous thoughts--which tend to be about others noticing if I'm nervous (like a huge one for me is "Am I blushing?"). So, I find I'm starting to switch some of the negative talk and anticipatory worry into positive talk, and in general I'm not caring as much about what others think. It's quite refreshing! I still struggle with some anxiety I won't lie, but I am feeling so much better than back in January. I still have sleep problems and take benadryl to sleep but other than that any negative side effects associated with starting up the meds are completely gone now. It's a good thing--I thought I was going to go crazy the first few weeks I felt so crappy!