Yo. Just wanted to say thank-you for your thread reply. I was going to respond but you posted there after I had already replied to everyone else so it would have been awkward.
Your antidote to a lack of intimacy is.. imagination? At this point I find it interesting how much richer other people's minds must be to be able to partially negate certain needs. I was always envious of people who had highly elaborate dreams too. My last partner was a bit like that.
Leaf, I'm sorry for my silly comments on Canada. I adore the place so quite clearly I was just causing some bother, which is what morons do so....i'm a moron :-(
Im new here, its an amazing place! If you want some unconditional listening or someone to be present with, let me know. I'm fresh out of therapy and in a great place right now, but still affected heavily by SA and related issues.