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I went to a party last night and finally got my first kiss as well as many others after that . It was something I never expected to happen but once again reality proves SA wrong. I wasn't even flirting with her. I was just trying to have a friendly conversation. But that developed into a deeper conversation she showed her interest and one thing led to another. I got her number the day after and now have a possible girlfriend too. So this makes up big time for my rejection a few weeks ago.

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Did you like the taste of her cherry chapstick!? :P

Grats that's awesome.

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I went to a party last night and finally got my first kiss as well as many others after that . It was something I never expected to happen but once again reality proves SA wrong. I wasn't even flirting with her. I was just trying to have a friendly conversation. But that developed into a deeper conversation she showed her interest and one thing led to another. I got her number the day after and now have a possible girlfriend too. So this makes up big time for my rejection a few weeks ago.
Congrats, man! I hope you liked it....and the taste of her cherry chapstick ;-)

(I just know that's gonna be beaten to death in this thread. )
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awesomeness!!

Congrats! Isn't it weird how sometimes these things just happen, when you're least expecting it? There's something very zen about it; you just go and it happens.

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Congrats! Isn't it weird how sometimes these things just happen, when you're least expecting it? There's something very zen about it; you just go and it happens.
It is I had no plans to try to woo a girl at the party. I also hung out with this girl the day before the party and had no idea she had feelings for me. It defiently was the thing I was expecting the least.

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How far did you go with her?
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2nd base

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Dying Laughing - must stop laughing - side hurts. Very inappropriate for me to find this that funny. Sorry.
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Don't you feel somewhat stressed out now that you might have a girlfriend? I dunno, I just imagine that it would feel somewhat distressing - having to do all the right things from now on... but of course i've never made it that far with a girl.
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Don't you feel somewhat stressed out now that you might have a girlfriend? I dunno, I just imagine that it would feel somewhat distressing - having to do all the right things from now on... but of course i've never made it that far with a girl.
I am. I feel I'm reading into to things to much. Trying to figure out if that was a one time thing for fun or if she really likes me and wants to start a relationship. Sa makes me play all those scenerios over and over again because I don't want to make an embaressing mistake. My lack of knowledge when dealing with these things just makes me feel more stressed too. I have one friend who invited me to the party and has been friends with her along time that can help me out a bit though.

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Dying Laughing - must stop laughing - side hurts. Very inappropriate for me to find this that funny. Sorry.
Its alright to laugh thats actually pretty funny lol

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Wow congratulations man! That's huge !!!! Was it what you imagined?

lol everyone beat me to the katy perry joke :P.
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Aw, that's so sweet. Congrats!
And, I'm sorry, but that Katy Perry joke made me laugh. I hope that song and now it's stuck in my head. Crap.

But I hope the kiss(es) was everything you hoped it would be and more. Which, apparently, it was. *wink wink*
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All I can say is good luck, just a thought here - though I'm sure it is scary... ask her (the girl you were kissing)... what she thinks and wants and what she expects. If you want to know what a girl thinks, wants and needs the best way to find out is to ask her. But I suppose the friend is a good place to get an intro into what she may be thinking.

I guess I am the type who would rather a guy just ask than try to guess and be wrong or get all stressed out wondering. Do you want a relationship with her or do you want it to be a one time thing just for fun?

Maybe you should know what you want before you worry too much about what she wants.
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