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I kissed a girl


Sorry just want to share it

I have dated this girl 3 times now and I know this time I need to do something, so as we were outside I kissed her really fast and then backed up or something or not sure what happened as I was anxious about it.
And then the situation became really really weird and cringe, she said something like : "You really wanted to make that ?" and I was just nervous smiling said Yes and then she said "You are shy now..."
Then after 1 minute time passed and discussion were back to normal, kissed her back as fast as well when we took good bye.

It felt really cringe and weird and I'm sure that it was my fault, but **** it ! I'm really proud of it !
Not sure if she will want to date me again now, but is a big step forward for me I would say !

She is really hot, social and confident woman, not sure how I got to date her as my first date ever !! (which probably lowered my confidence a lot)
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im a bit jealous...
but as far as what you say it didn't seem she disliked it, but i dunno, never had any dates.....
as for her dating you again, well it also does not seem she was mad for that, but just ask, nothing to lose by asking anyways
maybe tell her you were really nervous at that time

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Sorry just want to share it

I have dated this girl 3 times now and I know this time I need to do something, so as we were outside I kissed her really fast and then backed up or something or not sure what happened as I was anxious about it.
And then the situation became really really weird and cringe, she said something like : "You really wanted to make that ?" and I was just nervous smiling said Yes and then she said "You are shy now..."
Then after 1 minute time passed and discussion were back to normal, kissed her back as fast as well when we took good bye.

It felt really cringe and weird and I'm sure that it was my fault, but **** it ! I'm really proud of it !
Not sure if she will want to date me again now, but is a big step forward for me I would say !

She is really hot, social and confident woman, not sure how I got to date her as my first date ever !! (which probably lowered my confidence a lot)
And you liked it? I really tried to resist doing that but you know what? It was worth it.

Congratulations, it might have felt awkward but at least you went for it.

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I liked it yes, I like the girl a lot, but I was so anxious that of course I didn't felt much.
It's weird as all the dates were fine without any cringe/weird moment, I ****ed up a bit this time, what can you do without experience...

I'm not happy how that went, but I'm very pleased that I tried. Maybe it may look like a silly thing but for me it was required for a lot of courage to do it

Also after the second date I was so sad that I didn't tried anything, for me for some reason a fail is better than not trying at all.
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I liked it yes, I like the girl a lot, but I was so anxious that of course I didn't felt much.
It's weird as all the dates were fine without any cringe/weird moment, I ****ed up a bit this time, what can you do without experience...

I'm not happy how that went, but I'm very pleased that I tried. Maybe it may look like a silly thing but for me it was required for a lot of courage to do it

Also after the second date I was so sad that I didn't tried anything, for me for some reason a fail is better than not trying at all.
Oh, the first line was some classic Katy Perry banter.

As for feeling proud, it's all relative. It was a big deal for you, you faced your fear, you're more than entitled to feel proud.

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Oh, the first line was some classic Katy Perry banter.
Ohh... I was just going to do that! Wait, I'm still going to do it because I...


Nice! Next time will be equally weird or not. Could feel so wrong or feel so right, you need to try so the next night!

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Ooh la la!! Yaaay I'm happy for you!! I wouldn't assume it was cringey from her point of view or that she didn't like it. Maybe she likes shyness and found it cute. If a boy gets shy when he kisses l me I find it suuper sexy. Weeeee!!

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That was a cute story and her reaction was cute too hehehehe.

I wanna kiss a girl or I rather have the girl kiss me. You know to see what its like :P

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Ooh la la!! Yaaay I'm happy for you!! I wouldn't assume it was cringey from her point of view or that she didn't like it. Maybe she likes shyness and found it cute. If a boy gets shy when he kisses l me I find it suuper sexy. Weeeee!!
I understand that feeling , not that I have had it many times lol, but I get the point, it kind of feels supersweet.

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so jealous that i'm dispatching assassins. $20 bounty on tueton, dead or alive. an extra $10 for his woman

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Ha now I see why @LonelyLurker said he couldn't resist asking that, confused me a bit and I just answered directly to the question... Cringe after cringe man )
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Congrats, I hope it was as amazing as I imagine it is.
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Ha now I see why @LonelyLurker said he couldn't resist asking that, confused me a bit and I just answered directly to the question... Cringe after cringe man )
Nah, don't cringe. And good for you!

Although I did come to this thread /specifically/ to add that I liked it

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Nah, don't cringe. And good for you!

Although I did come to this thread /specifically/ to add that I liked it
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That was a cute story and her reaction was cute too hehehehe.

I wanna kiss a girl or I rather have the girl kiss me. You know to see what its like :P
curiosity.. well i to wold like to have that experience, and i also wonder if it really is possible to like send your feeling in a kiss.. so many mysteries, so many questions... but something ii probably never experience

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Not sure if you want it man, as I said, it was super super cringe moment after. I'm really proud of me as I had the balls, but still not sure if it was the right choice
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