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Congratulations. Do you feel this has encouraged you to be more outgoing in regular life?

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Congratulations. Do you feel this has encouraged you to be more outgoing in regular life?
You can be outgoing without having sex. Sex is just a physical act, social anxiety is a mental issue. You need to overcome this by literally throwing yourself into social situations and making small talk/general chit chat. If you don't force yourself to socialise, you will never improve.

I just started off by making small talk at bus stops, train stations, in shops, food stores, library, etc, etc. Make the small talk relevant to the situation you are in. For example, if you're at a bus stop, just ask a stranger if a certain bus has been yet, or in a shop, just ask if they have been busy today, or in a food store talk to someone at that sweets section about how certain chocolate/sweets are.

Slowly, you will become more confident in making small talk, then you can widen your chit chat to a small conversation etc.
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haha thats great man. Motivates me to get some girls. But first I need some friends. I dont go to school.well..cant go cuz I cant stand it. gonna have to go to sports clubs anyways, props to u dude
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a few questions:
1. did u have protection?
2. how drunk were u both?
3. was she attractive?
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Wow didnt expect such a big reaction. You guys are awesome.


To answer your questions, Yes , i do feel more confident hooking up with girls, not necessarily establishing a relationship with them. Of course i had protection (I dont understand how thats anyones business though). I was drunk she was slightly buzzed. She had a big nose but a damn good body.
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Congratulations! I was the same age as you, 19. And sex is a big deal to some people, it always has been to me, and I'm old. lol.

I don't need anyone to approve of what I say or do...but it's always nice when someone does.

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Haha, I'm just kidding. But it sums it up nicely. Seriously though, congrats. Everybody is different and everybody will feel differently after it's done.
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The first time it happens you're usually so tripped out that it's actually happening you don't have time to enjoy it.
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Congrats, hope it's boosted your confidence.

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Grats. Not really fond of the song, but came to mind. LoL

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good job man!!

now your next challenge will be getting ***** consistently...
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Yeeeaaaahhhhh, congratulations. If you read this where's your head at now? Has you perception on sex done a 180 and you can't wait to do it again? Or is it just a massive wait off your shoulders?
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I lolled. Find this really funny.
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happy for a week then back to depression and giant SA and wanting to get laid again =P

but good job =)
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Grats. Not really fond of the song, but came to mind. LoL

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happy for a week then back to depression and giant SA and wanting to get laid again =P

but good job =)
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I'm seriously now confused with the term of hooking up. Can you just say get laid?? I hate it when people say "Hey I hooked up with this guy last night." Hooking up can either mean making out or sex. Sooo which one is it. I hate having to ask someone so did you have sex?? It's like no. Obviously you meant sex since you mentioned getting laid as your title. I'm just saying.
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Congrats! You took something that's supposed to be meaningful, and one of the most intimate experiences you can share with someone else, and totally degraded and devalued it. So, good job! And in case you couldn't tell, my comment was drenched in sarcasm.
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