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Date went well :)


Hi, so...as part of my journey to become a new and better me, i got someone to go on a date with and i had a nice time. I won't over analyze it in the slightest and will rather go on my instincts, i enjoyed myself and i am proud of myself for having stepped out into the world and having faced my fears, and having a nice time. No matter what happens, i'm proud and grateful that this happened because it's a developmental step in my journey and i take nothing but positives.

The girl was mellow and nice to talk to and she even let me drive her home nearby. I take it as a positive that she could decide not to go out with me again and i would not be bummed out at all really because i take that as a sign of maturity from my part. As she left my car she said that we could go on another date if i liked so that's nice.

It's definitely possible folks, good luck out there

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Hi, so...as part of my journey to become a new and better me, i got someone to go on a date with and i had a nice time. I won't over analyze it in the slightest and will rather go on my instincts, i enjoyed myself and i am proud of myself for having stepped out into the world and having faced my fears, and having a nice time. No matter what happens, i'm proud and grateful that this happened because it's a developmental step in my journey and i take nothing but positives.

The girl was mellow and nice to talk to and she even let me drive her home nearby. I take it as a positive that she could decide not to go out with me again and i would not be bummed out at all really because i take that as a sign of maturity from my part. As she left my car she said that we could go on another date if i liked so that's nice.

It's definitely possible folks, good luck out there
Man, you're making strides, I hope some of the guys at a crossroads here will look at you as inspiration.

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That's inspiring man, good job🙂👍 .

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Gratz man. I got a date tonight, we are going to see the new Thor movie. It should be fun. I just hope I'm not super tired during the date because I literally just woke up now O_o...

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@naes Have fun!

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Thanks everyone.

@naes Have fun!
Thanks man. I'm about to cook myself up a pot of coffee right now cuz i can alrdy feel myself fading lol/

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Congrats! Have fun and I hope you get better and better and find much more happiness!

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Good luck man!

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Gratz man. I got a date tonight, we are going to see the new Thor movie. It should be fun. I just hope I'm not super tired during the date because I literally just woke up now O_o...
I am so happy for you that you finally got over Amber,i was really beginning to worry about your recent behaviour.
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I am so happy for you that you finally got over Amber,i was really beginning to worry about your recent behaviour.
I'm worrying about your behavior. Are you alright?

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congrats mate. hope the next date goes just as well for you

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Nice done man, what she said is definitely a good sign, been there know the feeling !
Looking forward to hear what you have done on the second date
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