Been very confident and assertive for the past several weeks
I don't know what it is but I guess it could be due to getting older but I've been very confident and assertive for awhile now.
For example, I had defended myself for a customer arguing with me and telling me to wake up cause she thought I was getting her order wrong and I immediately got in her face and showed her what the order is and that I was following what it says and to go complain at the person at the register and she then went on to apologize although most of the time you just let it pass you cause I can't argue with customers all day lol.
I have been speaking louder than usual with more volume in my voice than usual really helps with being assertive.
I confronted a coworker for blaming me for something that I definitely did not do and I just wasn't having it.
I actually yelled at this same coworker earlier for asking me to do something they could of done themselves and they knew I wasn't playing but I think I could have toned down the yelling a bit lol but I don't know it's like I'm not scared or hesitant at all to press the issue per say or defend myself from people although I'm still smart about it but Idk just felt like sharing this.
I've been saying no or arguing with coworkers more when they ask me to do something if I feel like it's something they can do for themselves or its their responsibilities and not mine or if they just give me sh**.
I still sometimes get uncomfortable but I push through it and let it happen if I have to cause I just tell myself that it's something I have to go through to grow as an adult or to get better at something I want to get better at.
What's funny is I'm using this job as like a training session and practice my assertive, arguing, social, skills practice so when I get my preferred job I really will be ready.
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