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post #1 of 6 (permalink) Old 06-24-2019, 09:21 PM Thread Starter
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Asked her out today


There is this girl at work who is probably the most outgoing person I have ever seen. She friendly with pretty each everyone in the plant. We work different shifts but are usually able to speak to each other everyday. I found that she had gone out on a date Sunday night and I asked her how it went

"OK yeah it was OK" she responded

To which I replied:
"If you want to we could hang out sometime"

She looked shocked and boded her head and said "yeah" and then quickly added "but I'm busy this week and I am going out of town all next week"

I doubt if I will eventually go out with this girl, but it was triumph for me personally with will my Social anxiety/aloofness. It was the first time I had ever asked a girl out

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Congrats.

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nice one

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Wow thats awesome! Thats probably the scariest thing cause it opens you up to rejection. You should be proud
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Good for you! No matter what happens it’s great that you did it.

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Great job. That is one of the toughest things to do is put yourself out their and face potential rejection. But you did it great job. Its like the quote says "You miss 100 percent of the shots you don't take". You took your shot that's all you can do now the ball is in her court. If she goes out with you awesome but don't expect it. Now just approach every woman you find attractive and ask them out just like that. Most will say no but some will say yes. Its a numbers game the more you approach the more chances you have to meet a awesome woman.
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