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post #1 of 4 (permalink) Old 07-23-2008, 12:59 PM Thread Starter
 
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I tried therapy and it does not work!


The feelings/thoughts in my brain are too strong.

I cannot go to clubs pubs, parties and be near large groups of people. I hate it and sometimes I despise those that do go.

I go out for a walk on my own near the countryside and I love being on my own and i'll have a smoke and then a couple will come walking towards me or a couple will go jogging past and I hate it because they've invaded my space.

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post #2 of 4 (permalink) Old 07-23-2008, 01:04 PM
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Re: I tried therapy and it does not work!


How long were you in therapy for and what approach did you try?
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Therapy takes time, how long have you been in therapy? I've been doing CBT for over a year and it has helped me loads.

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Ive found that the best therapy is try not to conform too much, don't get that mortgage, dont get married, dont go to that pub/club, don't join that self help class, don't buy that big car.

Ive found the more I remove myself from all this crap the better off I am. For instance Ive started looking at some of these images of deep space http://hubblesite.org/gallery/ from the Hubble Telescope and think whats going on outside this stupid planet.

To quote Hamlet, Act 1 Scene 5:

And therefore as a stranger give it welcome.
There are more things in heaven and earth, Horatio,
Than are dreamt of in your philosophy.
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