For a lot of people, including me, the internet can be a big waste of time and life.
If you donít have a life, donít try to have, fulfill, gain or sustain one on the internet. It doesn't work that way. So shut down your computer and go do the things you want and need in your life. Lest you spend too much time here rotting in old memories, negative thoughts, or unnecessary ones.
The friends that you make will know you for you. And if you have no friends now, no big deal. Worry about your life first. When you do your life and do you, things should happen without a second thought.
Sure life is scary, hard and often filled with disappointments Ė It is for everyone. But youíll never achieve anything you wanted by staying still. Before you know it life will have passed you by, and youíll have not what you hoped for yourself. Itís easy to waste away like this.
Itís all good and fine to 'dabble' here for a while, but if months turn into years, youíre online most days, and your life is lacking and not in working order, you know you've been too long, and itís not helping you.
Okay, you've explored yourself: now itís time to move on.
Iím talking about myself. But if you feel like me and think this is true for you too, then let's change it.