When 2 people of different races date they call it interracial, but how do you call when one is too ugly or beautiful then the other?
Most people find my very ugly and I have a attractive girlfriend for some time now. I noticed I sometimes get insults, being laughed, stared at and people disrespecting me and sometimes her too by a waitress in restaurants. It makes me angry, sad and very tired.
I am almost afraid to walk with her in such places now and wondering if its not better for me to be single
Why is this my life? :crying:
If you have an attractive girlfriend, and people are giving you weird looks about it, they are most likely jealous and not worth spending your time dealing with. Stop worrying about what random people think of you, unless they openly mock you around other people or lie about you behind your back.
When 2 people of different races date they call it interracial, but how do you call when one is too ugly or beautiful then the other?
Most people find my very ugly and I have a attractive girlfriend for some time now. I noticed I sometimes get insults, being laughed, stared at and people disrespecting me and sometimes her too by a waitress in restaurants. It makes me angry, sad and very tired.
I am almost afraid to walk with her in such places now and wondering if its not better for me to be single
Why is this my life? :crying:
Ugh, that's terrible. I understand what you mean to some extent. I have a guy friend that is quite a bit older, and also of a different race. So we get stares in public sometimes. It can be a bit awkward, but I'm doing what I want and not hurting anyone, so :stu
Anyway, at the end of the day, you're the one she wants. Take some pride in that. Most of these people are probably just jealous.
You have a much greater worry.
If your girlfriend is as attractive as you say, prepare for competing males on the regular. Always expect the worst, friend.
I have witnessed few times man coming up to her when I wasn't near. And she even admitted that it happened when she was alone too, but I don't worry about that because I know her and trust her.
It's pretty much been said already about not listening to naysayers. I'm sorry that if it goes at a level due to it being interracial that you're getting flack from that. You'd think since it's now 2020 that it would be different.
In my world, as a shy loser sorta guy, that would confer immense respect/admiration upon you. In this crazy superficial society it takes some serious confidence and self belief for a man to date a woman much better looking than him.
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