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Drew 07-08-2009 10:30 PM

Would you join a social anxiety group in your area?
 
One common complaint we've seen is a lack of groups and we're considering ways of addressing this.

Please share your thoughts. It would be very much appreciated! :)

Update: May 15th, 2012

Would you be willing to share your thoughts on online social anxiety groups? Maybe even test out a group later (if you're comfortable)?

If so, please contact me at [email protected]. No pressure. I'd just want to ask you a few questions to get your opinions. It wouldn't require any commitment from you and your feedback would be about the idea, not about you personally or me personally. I wouldn't take any negative feedback personally. I hope to hear from you!

mountain5 07-08-2009 10:56 PM

I started a meetup.com group in my area, but it hasn't gotten enough people to be functional yet...I don't live in a major city. I do go to social anxiety meetups in St. Paul occasionally.

Drew 07-08-2009 11:01 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by mountain5 (Post 982844)
I started a meetup.com group in my area, but it hasn't gotten enough people to be functional yet...I don't live in a major city. I do go to social anxiety meetups in St. Paul occasionally.

Do you have to pay for a Meetup group that isn't yet active?

Thanks for sharing your experience!

lyssado707 07-08-2009 11:07 PM

The first 3

mountain5 07-08-2009 11:09 PM

Yes, if you initiate a group on meetup.com, there is a fee involved. I paid for 6 months and I'll probably have to renew soon. There was a 50% off deal going on when I signed up.

I'm not sure what the current prices are, but it's easy enough to make a test group for yourself and see what they're charging.

EagerMinnow84 07-08-2009 11:30 PM

I asked my psychiatrist if she knew of any strictly social anxiety group at the hospital I go to once every 3 months and she said there isn't. I never knew finding a social anxiety group would be so difficult! And I live in a big big big city!

VCL XI 07-09-2009 01:04 AM

There's at least one in my area. I have no interest currently.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jaan Pehechaan Ho (Post 982879)
I have been to a SA group gathering and didn't like it. It actually made my SA worse because I didn't know how to act around other people with SA. I was so quiet that even people with SA thought I was weird. You would think you will feel better because you are around people with the same problem, but it's not any easier - it's just like meeting "normal" people.

I've never been to one, but I imagine that's exactly how it would turn out for me. A local group's activities were rather summercamp-y, which would've been pure torture for me. Stuff like skating rinks, arcades, amusement parks, tourist spots, etc. I'm not into that stuff at all, so it wouldn't matter who I'm there with.

If anyone wants to start an SA street gang though, PM me.

http://i32.tinypic.com/fk8t5e.jpg

veron 07-09-2009 06:29 AM

I'm not really sure. I think I could possibly go to one meeting and see how it goes from there... But considering that probably nobody in this city has heard of the term "SA," that won't be happening any time soon :)

Drew 07-09-2009 07:48 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by EagerMinnow84 (Post 982869)
I asked my psychiatrist if she knew of any strictly social anxiety group at the hospital I go to once every 3 months and she said there isn't. I never knew finding a social anxiety group would be so difficult! And I live in a big big big city!

Yah, and I know therapists who have the problem of filling groups that they want to start. We are going to work on bridging that gap.

Many thanks to everyone who has voted and/or shared their thoughts and experiences. :)

anonymid 07-09-2009 08:07 AM

I went to a couple social anxiety meetups soon after I moved here six months ago, but haven't gone to any since.

nothing to fear 07-09-2009 08:22 AM

i guess you mean for therapy and not just the socializing?

i did a group for social anxiety - it costs money because it was run by two psychologist, but it was a bit helpful. we did CBT type work in the open and would set goals for ourselves and did exposure within the group (which was prob most helpful, since it was forced). i don't know how all of the groups work but i'd definitely recommend it to anyone who has the chance.
i'm also doing it again, but this time it is for a research study which is cool and since i'm a volunteer it is for free :)

Drew 07-09-2009 08:51 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by nothing to fear (Post 983127)
i guess you mean for therapy and not just the socializing?

We foresee three types of groups:
1) therapy run by therapists
2) therapy peer-to-peer (because some people insurance won't cover group therapy and/or they just can't afford it)
3) social groups to just get together and do fun stuff together (or volunteer!)

Hadron92 07-09-2009 08:55 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by VCL XI (Post 982929)
If anyone wants to start an SA street gang though, PM me.

http://i32.tinypic.com/fk8t5e.jpg

Haha. Count me in dude ;).

Drew 07-09-2009 08:57 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by VCL XI (Post 982929)
If anyone wants to start an SA street gang though, PM me.
http://i32.tinypic.com/fk8t5e.jpg

Hmm, maybe we could consider that as a group type as well ;) :lol

Black_Widow 07-09-2009 10:06 AM

At this stage, I really doubt I could find the courage. Though it's certainly something to consider for the future, if other things I'm trying at the moment don't work out.

Saqq 07-09-2009 10:46 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by nothing to fear (Post 983127)
i guess you mean for therapy and not just the socializing?

i did a group for social anxiety - it costs money because it was run by two psychologist, but it was a bit helpful. we did CBT type work in the open and would set goals for ourselves and did exposure within the group (which was prob most helpful, since it was forced). i don't know how all of the groups work but i'd definitely recommend it to anyone who has the chance.
i'm also doing it again, but this time it is for a research study which is cool and since i'm a volunteer it is for free :)

Hey :) is there any spots still left for that group? or it is currently ongoing -- pm or text/call whatever :)

Thanks

TorLin 07-09-2009 10:53 AM

I already belong to a good social anxiety group in my area :)

Metallic 07-09-2009 11:03 AM

My psychologist said that they used to have a group thing offered at the counseling center, but it wasn't specifically social anxiety. She said if she can get enough people that actually have social anxiety to want to do it, then she might get one started, but I'm still not sure if I'd be able to make myself go.

I also went to that meetup.com website and joined the group for social anxiety in my area, but I haven't gone to a single meeting. Everyone in it is much older than me so I'm not sure if I'd feel comfortable.

tiberius 07-09-2009 11:25 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Metallic (Post 983250)
Everyone in it is much older than me so I'm not sure if I'd feel comfortable.

Hey, it's a social meeting for the socially anxious. Nobody's comfortable! :afr

rickthegreat 07-09-2009 12:51 PM

There is an SA support group 2 hours from where I live. :( I have thought about making it there but have not. I did do the phone group thing though but did not like it.


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