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post #1 of 67 (permalink) Old 02-16-2020, 08:55 PM Thread Starter
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No. I love kissing.

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I wonder if there even is such a thing. I've never heard of anyone who doesn't but it just occurred to me that there's no reason why there couldn't be someone who thinks it's wrong or icky or something.

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sure, even if they are humanoid lizard woman

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Moot point. But I'd have to say maybe, but probably not. It really depends on a number of factors.
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I actually don't think I like it. Other than kissing relatives as a greeting (DISGUSTING) I have kissed one person and it's too wet and it's just a weird concept so no thank you.
Would happily date someone who would agree not to kiss. Or to just kiss lips to cheek or something.

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I actually don't think I like it. Other than kissing relatives as a greeting (DISGUSTING) I have kissed one person and it's too wet and it's just a weird concept so no thank you.
Would happily date someone who would agree not to kiss. Or to just kiss lips to cheek or something.
It does seem like a pretty random thing to do when you think about it. Like who came up with it? Why would it just seem like the right thing to do if it had never been done before?

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No I love kissing.

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No I love kissing.
Even if she has onion breath?

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Never kissed anyone on the lips before, so I guess I wouldn't like it if my partner didn't like it.

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I wonder if there even is such a thing. I've never heard of anyone who doesn't but it just occurred to me that there's no reason why there couldn't be someone who thinks it's wrong or icky or something.
I never enjoyed it in real life. I actually made a post about this recently, in the dream thread. I don't remember most of my dreams now so was thinking about some of the ones that stood out to me over the last several years, and one involved kissing because it was enjoyable in the dream. Also because I was saving them from some post-apocalyptic camp, and they were shorter than me (I don't think this was an important factor since I'm mostly indifferent to height when it comes to attraction, was just weird because I don't usually meet people shorter than me irl and they were a guy as well.)

I wouldn't say I think of it as wrong or icky though (wrong implies some kind of moral judgement.) I would say it varied in quality but I never found it particularly positive. One sticks in my mind as being better than the others.

Just the other day someone made a thread about not liking sex or something so I'm surprised you haven't come across this before.

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maybe they will let you lick them instead. or grab their ***.

I can understand a beard/stubble aversion if you have sensitive skin or hygiene issues or want to avoid having face scratched off. also if they have bad breath! or I guess there are a lot of possible reasons.

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Just the other day someone made a thread about not liking sex or something so I'm surprised you haven't come across this before.
Oh, I'm sure I probably saw it before. I was just curious how many people would actually do it if they really liked someone and that was the only way.

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Yes probably, I've never dated or kissed much tbh the whole SA avoidance thing got in the way alot, but behind my meek, flighty exterior I'm pretty chill & open minded, I've never did open mouth kissing anyway.

A peck would be ok in all circumstances, but open mouth would be up for more scrutiny, like do they smoke (I hate cigarettes) have they got gum disease, bad acid reflux etc, might negate those things if really liked the person, cause passion/lust defies logic it seems etc.. I'm probably overthinking as usual.






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Intimate-less relationships are weird. And with intimacy, kissing is bound to be among the starter flavoring.

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Intimate-less relationships are weird. And with intimacy, kissing is bound to be among the starter flavoring.
Well I'm not very experienced but maybe I could work up to it, I'd be thinking, date number...

1. Hi-five
2. Fistbump
3. Tickle fight
4. Blowing kisses
5. Hugs
6. Kiss...... Etc






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No.

Physical touch is one of my love languages.

(Which is funny cause I don't like being physical in general. But it's different with someone you're into.)
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Even if she has onion breath?
Nah. We can wait a bit after the chips and dip.

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I'm not sure. Guess it wouldn't be a major deal breaker.

But I did date someone who had rotten teeth before and yea...Gross. I would never want to kiss someone with rotten teeth again. I think he did a bunch of drugs but I'm not too sure on that. :/ He was only 21 at the time. I know no one would want to kiss me if I had rotten teeth and that's partially why I brush mine cause that's just nasty.
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I never gave it any thought before. Please find me someone that I can try kissing, and then I'll let you know.
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