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Your top 5 biggest regrets in life?


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post #2 of 49 (permalink) Old 01-12-2020, 09:15 PM
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1. Leaving school too young - should have tried to stay.
2. Not buying a house or property in my name.
3. Blowing my inheritance like all the other money I ever had.
4. Just generally being terrible with money.
5. Stopping that medication that time and getting very manic - then going off and not telling my wife what I was doing.
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post #3 of 49 (permalink) Old 01-13-2020, 12:51 AM
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Just about all of them involves mostly with "listening to my heart and they typical motivational thoughts, instead of listening to logic and the safe/cowardly route of thinking". Because of that, I am now mostly stuck with adhering strictly to a very safe and conservative way of thinking and making my decisions. Kind of similar to Ben Stiller's character in the movie Along Came Polly.

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Oh, this is about bad decisions we've made. Well, that's harder.

Um, I could say I regret not coming out when I was a teenager. But I probably would have been murdered. And I only wish that had happened about half of the time, so I'm kind of ambivalent about that.

Haven't really made a lot of other decisions that I regret. I've always tried to follow my heart to the extent I felt safe to do so. Living that way has destroyed my life, from a cultural perspective, because I should have tried to be as normal and safe as possible, but I don't really regret it. I wouldn't have been any happier (or even capable) of living more practically than I have.

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post #5 of 49 (permalink) Old 01-14-2020, 07:06 AM
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1. Experimenting with drugs as a teenager leading to later addiction
2. Dropping out of school at 17
3. Not buying bitcoin when I first heard about it
4. Not spending more time with my dad while he was alive
5. I was awful to an ex of mine during some of my heavy drug use years and she didn't deserve it
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I should probably regret what I studied at uni, but I wanted to study it I just wanted to study a bunch of other things too and you can't do everything.

Other than that I have no reason to live so continuing to live is a dumb choice I'm making atm. There isn't a lot of stuff that I have any control over.

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Doing drugs when young
Not taking sports seriously or trying hard when I was on a team
Wasting time on certain people and being too nice to them
Being a jerk to people that didn't deserve it
Avoiding girls

also: not getting treatment earlier

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1) Never talking about what was going on at home to anyone (not even when it ended in hospital for me)
2) Not trying hard enough to overcome my SA when I was still young.
3) Not trying make friends in university and getting a girlfriend.
4) Going to university and losing so much time studying for nothing basically (I don't spend most of the money I make + I somehow don't like this job)
5) Staying at my current work place because I am to lazy to look for better.

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1) Falling down the stairs like a ****
2) Having to give up proper snowboarding after falling down the stairs like a ****
3) Not seeking help for general anxiety much sooner
4) Not finding a career (so far) that I was truly passionate about
5) A genuine offer from the bottom of my heart not being taken seriously

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not choosing my own college path.
not studying more leading to dropping out.
not trying to re-enter school earlier.
not ever trying to gain a girlfriend until therapy.
not going to therapy at an earlier age.

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post #11 of 49 (permalink) Old 01-14-2020, 06:52 PM
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Not dating more in high school
Not sleeping with the girl who wanted to spend the night with me 6 years ago
Not going further with a girl I made out with when I was ten
I also regret every other time where I could have gotten a girlfriend or sex but chose not to because I was scared and nervous like a little *****.

I've been seeking happiness for years.
I've lived in hiding from the darkness.
I've spent so many hours in question.
I've prayed that God finds me soon.
Only to realize I must find myself.
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Taking for granted that the best things in my life would last. I can probably stop there.
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post #13 of 49 (permalink) Old 01-14-2020, 09:28 PM
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1.Not seeking real help for my SAD and other issues that I struggled with (and still struggle with) when I was younger.
2.Turning to drugs (mostly powder cocaine) to try and cope with my issues instead of seeking proper help. Which in the long run made my issues even worse.
3.Not standing up for myself from verbally abusive family members even though I knew they were full of sh!t.
4.Dropping out of high school cause I was too weak to deal with other people. Too many people around so couldn't focus on anything.
5.Pushing people away. Instead of trying to make an effort to stay in touch with people/friends that I grew up with,I just stopped trying and mostly isolated myself. I guess I'm lucky enough to still have some people around that care about me.
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You are quite something aren't you @Dispatch
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post #15 of 49 (permalink) Old 01-15-2020, 12:29 PM
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What did Dispatch do ? Don't listen to em pretty sure its a mean spirited troll.

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post #16 of 49 (permalink) Old 01-15-2020, 04:03 PM
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Probably that time I blocked the shot/puck with my groin. It wasn't supposed to be my groin blocking it.

I only mention one as I don't remember the others too much after the groin shot. Actually, I don't remember much of anything after that.

Forgot to mention this wasn't a serious game. I must have been thinking with my nads?

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post #17 of 49 (permalink) Old 01-15-2020, 08:40 PM
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I usually go with the gut feeling, so difficult to regret anything, except maybe those times when I didn't go with the gut feeling... Sure some alternative decisions would have been objectively better, but they would have felt wrong and they still do and I would choose to do the same again if I had the chance.

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Oddly enough, every regret I've ever had could have been prevented by abortion.

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Originally Posted by WillYouStopDave View Post
Oddly enough, every regret I've ever had could have been prevented by abortion.
^for real tho
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^for real tho
Or better yet, a condom. The inventors of the condom were probably thinking they'd finally made a miracle (ironically, that's a delusion they shared with pretty much everyone who's ever made a baby except for an Einstein here and there).

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