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There seems to be an avalanche of almost anti-sex threads lately. I don't get it. Why is the desire to have sex just for the sake of it so prone to moral outrage? Jeez. Get over yourselves.
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It irrates me that this is one of if not the biggest complaint SAers have here with their disorder. SA would cause me so much bigger problems that sex was one of the least of my worries.



But what you gunna do
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It irrates me that this is one of if not the biggest complaint SAers have here with their disorder. SA would cause me so much bigger problems that sex was one of the least of my worries.


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Sex means you can connect on some level with a person. That's part of what is frustrating about SA...not being able to connect, so I would say having sex would be pretty awesome and a great triumph against SA. At least it was for me. OH YEH AND IT'S A BASIC HUMAN DESIRE, OF COURSE IT'S IMPORTANT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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1. Procreation is human nature. Of course people feel naturally inclined to do this, even if they aren't actually capable of taking care of another person.

2. Again, this is human nature. We are all curious as to what exactly sex feels like.

3. Once again, human nature.

So yeah, those are the three main reasons we want sex. So what was the point of this thread?
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Sex means you can connect on some level with a person. That's part of what is frustrating about SA...not being able to connect, so I would say having sex would be pretty awesome and a great triumph against SA. At least it was for me. OH YEH AND IT'S A BASIC HUMAN DESIRE, OF COURSE IT'S IMPORTANT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
There ya go. Is this too complicated to understand?
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That's part of what is frustrating about SA...not being able to connect
Truly. I dont even seem to connect with people who have SA and it is frustrating.
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It feels fantastic.. why else? Who only wants to have sex for the sole purpose of popping a kid out than not have sex til u want another (unless you are in some messed up religious cult and taking a mans seed is the greatest deed youll ever do haha). We\ve got domes and BC up in Canada lol have fun
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I think for a lot of people who are unhappy with their virgin status and suffer from SA, they want to have sex not to brag or anything, but simply because it's a partial victory against SA: you have been able to connect to a woman and get close enough to make her want to have a relationship (and thus including sex) with you.
And yes, of course it feels good. But don't expect the ultimate extasy neither. I mean orgasming when masturbating or orgasming in a woman is still an orgasm.
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I want to know what it's like to feel that close and intimate with someone. But I'm not in a huge hurry or anything. I've had plenty of chances but I turned them all down because they were people I would not want to do that with. It would not feel right if I was just doing it with anyone, it would have to be someone I am very attracted to and feel something for. And there just hasn't been anyone that I've met yet who i feel that way about.

And because it's a thing that humans are just going to feel the desire to do because it's human nature and stuff.
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Most people seem to view having sex as a confidence-booster.
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A shag right now would be a great confidence-booster for myself.
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Because my arm is so tired!

Joking aside i really don't see the point in having sex just because ''everyone else is doing it'', what i crave is companionship, i don't care about the sex much but it would be a nice bonus in a relationship.
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While animal drives come and go, the only reason that sticks around is sheer curiosity. Having an experience under my belt I didn't have before.
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Because my arm is so tired!

Joking aside i really don't see the point in having sex just because ''everyone else is doing it'', what i crave is companionship, i don't care about the sex much but it would be a nice bonus in a relationship.

This, so much.
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It feels good I guess, what other reason could there be
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I love it when non celibates say "Sex is no big deal man, you should stop stressing over it." but I doubt any of them would go a year without physical contact with their preferred gender, let alone inserting or being inserted with genitalia without becoming frustrated, depressed and anxious. "Sex is no problem dude." What a load of crap it makes me sick, everyone here so high and mighty on their pedestal speaking to plebs in a condescending manner. Reading and digesting the junk in this thread made me vomit on my keyboard. God damn it, I just spent six bucks on Quiznos.

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The world is full of desperate idiots who must follow society's unspoken law about not being a virgin past the age of 20. Thus, this I believe is the number one reason these people on here want to get laid.
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The world is full of desperate idiots who must follow society's unspoken law about not being a virgin past the age of 20. Thus, this I believe is the number one reason these people on here want to get laid.
Or how about they have a sex drive they can't satiate? No way! It can't be that obvious!!!!


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