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post #21 of 66 (permalink) Old 10-23-2011, 07:58 PM
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Ehhh no reason really. I just have nothing else to look forward to as I grow.

I dont look forward to 9-5 work days and debt.

You know? =\
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To feel one of the best expriences in life, ever. And to also feel more confident in myself and less scared of women. It will give me a great sense of excitement, relief, and euphoria that I'm a virgin no more. It's one thing to lie about being a virgin, but it would feel better to say I'm not one and it's the truth.

And after the act, I'll still be the same moral person I am now.
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Something fun to do, it;s supposed to give you pleasure, why would you not want pleasure?
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"getting laid" has never been a priority for me
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Something fun to do, it;s supposed to give you pleasure, why would you not want pleasure?
nothing but the constant "OMG IM NEVER GONNA GET LAID IM NEVER GONNA HAVE A GIRLFRIEND FML" i keep reading here its annoying as ****, here people have the balls to post it cause its the internet, IRL they dont talk about it but its the same s---, if it wasnt so repetitive it would be okay but its all some people care about, what the ---- is wrong with them.. i dont know, big deal a penis inside of a vagina, like it's something to be proud of, any mf can get laid fat, short, ugly w/e, some people talk about losing their virginity like it was the key to eternal happiness.
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Its one our deep desires. Cannot escape it.
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Think about all the times you've masturbated. Did you ever ONCE think to yourself after you were done, "well that was the best decision of my day."
Often.
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Great post!!! Every time you engage in casual sex you have insulted your body and spirit.


Anyways, maybe I'm one of the only ones not stuck on "getting laid" but when it does happen myself and the other person will have an established and committed relationship. I'm not saying marriage, I'm just saying committed. You don't need to be married to be committed.

Having sex and making love are two different things, though. Both emote their own set of feelings.

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Sex is a pretty important part of love imo. I'm happy to wait for the right person though, not desperate to just go around swinging my wang around like it owns the place.

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Because it feels oh so good.
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I disagree that sex is just sex. It is almost never just sex. Usually its more about feelings, acceptance, fitting in, a trophy of some sort, way of earning approval, or an obsession. If it was just about finding release, masturbation would suffice. I think for people with SA, some of us think having sex will prove we're ''normal'' and help fix our problems. I also wonder about people who talk about urges but have never had sex. From personal experience, I never had the urge to have sex until after I'd already had it. Sure I was curious, but it wasn't a huge deal. How can you miss what you haven't done? Maybe it's from watching porn and becoming fixated on it. Can someone explain?

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Because all of us are horny and need to get it wet from time to time.
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post #36 of 66 (permalink) Old 10-23-2011, 10:30 PM
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lol what happened to creating a emotional connection or of some sort?
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1. Procreation is human nature. Of course people feel naturally inclined to do this, even if they aren't actually capable of taking care of another person.

2. Again, this is human nature. We are all curious as to what exactly sex feels like.

3. Once again, human nature.

So yeah, those are the three main reasons we want sex. So what was the point of this thread?
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For me? Let's see:

1. Procreate. Holy sh*t no. I don't want kids. At least not any time soon. There are already enough people on this planet anyways and I really don't want to lose my freedom (and believe me, kids take a lot of it)

2. Lose Virginity. Well yes I was sick and tired of being virgin. Why? I'll come to that later.

3. Feels good man. Yeah it does feel good. But it's not the Holy f*in' Grail neither. I mean, you have sex, you come. Big deal. But to be honest, coming when you masturbate and coming when you're having sex or receiving oral is the exact same physical feeling.
I was genuinely like "huh? Is that it?" when I was done having sex for the first time.

The reason why my virginity was starting to really run me down (I was 28 years old) was because of the idea that no woman had yet wanted to be intimate with me. For a man, this idea is not pleasant. It's not that I wanted to be able to tell the people around me that "yeahhhhh I had sex like a real stud man!!" because to be honest, whoever brags about his sex life is laughable. And you really don't have to be a stud to have sex.
I'm not a stud nor do I have a high sex drive.
No. To me, it was the idea that me, my body and my personality attracted a woman enough that she'd want to have sex with me. It's a confirmation to a man that a woman gets turned on by you.

Now, I will be the first one to say that if you're a late virgin, it doesn't mean you're ugly or anything. It probably means that you lack confidence, which is something you can do something about. Or perhaps you simply haven't met the right person. I know that sounds cliché, but it's true.
And truth be told, sex isn't the thing that will suddenly rock your world as people make it out to be. I'm still the same guy as I was before.
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LOL... I usually feel the opposite, like a complete loser. But that's only after the climax. And that, is why I hold off and masturbate for hours. xD

It's not even so much as getting laid for me. As false or fraudulent an indication that it may be, it still means that I can achieve some sort of significant interaction beyond the casual encounter with a girl. That I can be with a girl, and enjoy her company, even if it's only for a couple hours. Now, that probably sounds naive as **** but it's true.

And horniness is a slight factor as well.

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1. Procreation is human nature. Of course people feel naturally inclined to do this, even if they aren't actually capable of taking care of another person.

2. Again, this is human nature. We are all curious as to what exactly sex feels like.

3. Once again, human nature.

So yeah, those are the three main reasons we want sex. So what was the point of this thread?
Lol, right over your head huh?


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