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Why couldn't we just be socially normal like everyone else?


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post #2 of 11 (permalink) Old 11-06-2019, 11:14 AM
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Because I wasn't supposed to exist at all...

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God obviously has something against us LOL
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Because I wasn't supposed to exist at all...
Don't be silly, it is OUR DESTINY to exist!

Believe me, I've seen it all before. Well determinism is clearly true anyway, that much I (Trump) can tell you ;-)
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Great question. I don't know about other people, but I myself can be very sociable around people i've known for a long time. I have only 4-5 people I can feel like I can be myself around, and be fully myself. Literally, every single human out there I am a fake person to. It's hard to explain, but I just feel like I can never be me. My whole point about why were like this is were unique. You see most people can easily be authentically "themselves" with nearly everyone they meet, but then theres us. It's difficult. At the end of the day these people are more concerned with, in my opinion, pleasing and fitting in. It takes real guts not to care about fitting in. We don't care to fit in, and at the end of the day i don't want to be them. I don't want to act like everyone else, just to be accepted. It's hard, but I personally am determined to be a introvert, anti-social, social anxiety, person comfortable with themselves alone.
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That's because we are socially competent, and the normal people aren't. We can subconsciously detect behavior, logic, and words from people who aren't aware of their own actions.

I have proof that the people first thoughts never had an idea about a particular situation.

Multi-Agent Quantum AI Computers managing humanity 24/7 using Quantum Cryptography Satellites to run a thought interval to generate cryptographic keys to refresh key information into thoughts to channel the communication 24/7.

NSA Software Engineers computionally remapping buildings, jobs, relationships, wealth, education, and income using bio intelligence system to manage citizens time & events in their own environment.


The real creator gave the programmers restricted technologies.
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With me, itís not so much socially. I am slightly socially awkward but itís the lack of life experience thatís killing me. Being sheltered too long by my parents held me back from doing things early so now I have a hard time doing everything.



I've been seeking happiness for years.
I've lived in hiding from the darkness.
I've spent so many hours in question.
I've prayed that God finds me soon.
Only to realize I must find myself.
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With me, itís not so much socially. I am slightly socially awkward but itís the lack of life experience thatís killing me. Being sheltered too long by my parents held me back from doing things early so now I have a hard time doing everything.
There's only one way to get life experience. Are you still living at home?

If so - leave. Get out of there - even just go and share with some other kids your age. That can be cheap if you don't have a lot of money. And go travelling or something - you'd have a ball meeting girls in hostels etc.
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